Is it normal i want to consume my lover alive? & want him to do the same to me?

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I love my intimate partner/lover/best friend, deeply; he is the most wonderful, most loving, sweetest person I have ever met<3 ...BUT... I want to consume him alive, and for him to do the same to me... he is okay with my cannibalistic desires, finds them very interesting actually, but I was interested to know if other people feel this way about their lovers?

I love to consume his body fluids (blood from nose bleeds/shaving cuts, sweat, spit, and.. obviously 'sexual fluid' also).. This feels as close as I can come to cannibalizing him, without actually hurting him..

He enjoys biting, tearing and scratching me until I bleed (but only because I want it, he likes to do whatever I want) and after he has drawn blood, I make him kiss it all away and swallow it.. So, it goes both ways: I want to eat him alive, and I want him to eat me alive too.. like I said, he finds this interesting, not scary or dangerous ^_^

This seems so natural, this feeling, like a natural by-product of the bond we have, the love we share... I wouldn't call it a 'fetish' because it is not sexual at all, and, I have only ever felt this for him... but I have never loved anyone as deeply as I love him so, I was wondering if this is how other people feel, at least some of the time, about their intimate partner?

Thank you for voting, and for any replies.. it is always so interesting to know what people on this site think ^_^

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Sweet mother of god what have I just discovered.

    I imagine him popping zits into your mouth.
    Him cutting his toe nails and you eating them.
    You licking sweat off of a sweaty buttcrack.
    You snapping off his pinky finger with your teeth and eating it.

    D: *Blauurgg* &lt;&lt;(vomit) No thanks. I happen to find pain painful, and those above things utterly disgusting.

    There is an episode of Supernatural called "My Bloody Valentine" and the beginning reminds me of your desires

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    • kinkyace
      10 years ago

      well, we are asexual, so, no buttcrack licking haha (though, I am not sure I would say no if goven the opportunity) ...but he will not take his pants off, eeeever :p

      it is the fluids I like: spit, blood, sweat and semen.. though the semen I am only allowed to lick off his fingers after he has wanked, as he does not like blow-jobs (which does suck a little, no pun intended, because I very much like giving them, haha) ^.^

      He also does not like pain (that is why I do not bite or scratch him) but I love having him make me bleed, feels so niiiiice, and he enjoys giving me things I want, as long as his cock is not involved and his clothes do not come off.. (before anyone asks, yes, he is a veeery good size -I have had many- and he 'works' absolutely fine, he just has no interest in penetrating anything with it ^.^)

      Thanks for your comment =D

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Are you sure you both are aesexual...? It sounds like he is, but like you are not. But then again I do not know very much about aesexuality.

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        • kinkyace
          10 years ago

          Hello again ^_^

          I fall into the 'grey area' of asexuality ... I define myself as a demisensual asexual.. this means that I absolutely adore being 'sensual' with my lover, as long as no vaginal penetration, or contact with that particular area.. is involved, whatsoever. oh and 'demi' refers to the fact that I can only enjoy this sensuality if a deep emotional connection is involved between myself and the person I am with..

          He also falls into the 'grey area', and is >very< kinky with what he enjoys to do to me (not discussed in my post, as it was not relevant to the topic).. though, again, absolutely no 'sex' is involved with what we do: Arousal? yes, on both our parts! ...Desire to act on that arousal? no, not at all! does that make any sense at all?? it does to me, hehe

          We were best friends, before we became intimate lovers.. And we had discussed everything about what the other wants and needs before we entered into any form of intimacy with each-other... We made our needs perfectly clear to each-other, discussed the things we were willing to compromise on, and decided that in the long run, we are really rather perfect for each-other ^_^

          Hope that helped answer your question =D

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            Oooooh...that was very helpful actually. Thank you.

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            • kinkyace
              10 years ago

              you are most welcome ^_^

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      • piscespieces
        9 years ago

        i dont mean to sound ignorant and insult you in anyway but could you be a vampire? i dont mean vampire in the sense of the stupid twilight movies but there are people in this world who enjoy drinking their partners blood and other fluids that consider themselves to be vampires and it is totally normal in their community

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        • kinkyace
          9 years ago

          Hey there, thanks for you comment, and that is a good question!! what you are referring to is 'Vampirism' (which is actually rather a common fetish ^_^) I am what they call a 'Hard Voraphile' ... Hard Vore is a fetish for being eaten, and eating someone else, alive :P I keep it on the sane end, restricting it to biting, and consuming body fluids :P ..when I posted this thread, I had no idea there were other people like me haha.. that this was an actual 'thing' hence the reason I posted in the first place. Most Hard Vores want to be eaten alive my animals, but I prefer the cannibalistic aspects of the fetish, as opposed to the animal side of it ^_^

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    • emerillog
      10 years ago

      hahahahhaa I saw that episode too and thought of it right when I saw the title of this post @Anthian

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Finally, someone who gets me!

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        • kinkyace
          10 years ago

          Why have I not seen this show?! **jots down name from your initial comment** ...always good to have new viewing material :D :D

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  • Kokorodokidoki
    9 years ago

    Even though this isn't normal. If your partner consents to what you are doing, you have nothing to worry about. He obviously loves you for who you are and wants to make you happy. Everyone has a fetish and I am glad you have found someone who can help you fulfil yours (although not completely.)

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    • kinkyace
      9 years ago

      Interestingly enough, it was actually him who introduced me to the idea of biting in the first place.. it was something I had never even thought about until I met him.. I guess I had always considered myself rather straight-and-narrow really.

      One might say, that his enjoyment of biting, unleashed my kinky Vore demon :p haha

      We are both very happy ^_^ thanks for your comment!!

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  • PureLikeSnow
    10 years ago

    Absolutely normal for a female praying mantis, but not you.

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    • kinkyace
      10 years ago

      Praying manti's are most definitely awesome!! thank's for your comment :D

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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago

    Well obviously this isn't normal, but you're both very happy with this, so there's no need to worry about what we think. Although your fantasies of eating him are abnormal, you seem to be rational enough not to act on them- which you should never. Be happy you found someone who shares your pleasures. I imagine it isn't easy. Don't ever actually eat his parts, he needs them.

    As for everyone else on here, yes there really are people like this. It's unlikely this is a troll.

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    • kinkyace
      10 years ago

      Thank you, you are officially awesome ^_^

      We would never act on our desires to the extent of actually causing permanent damage to each other :D

      I am very lucky to have found my sweetie.. we were best friends, and only became lovers by accident really, but as it turns out, we really are made for each other ^_^

      Definitely not a troll, though, like a said to a previous commenter, I do enjoy drinking alone under bridges :p

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    If you eat him, how's he going to eat you? DUH!

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    • kinkyace
      10 years ago

      oooh wow, I never thought of that o: ..haha jokes!! You know how two chicks can ''eat each other out'' at the same time?? Same concept really, just different body parts involved, and a lot more blood :p ...

      I erm, do specify in my question that it is his body fluids I cannibalize, as opposed to actually cooking and consuming his flesh...

      Just for the record though, if we actually wanted to cook and eat parts of each other, there are a lot of parts that could be removed surgically before organs begin to shut down and death ensues...

      Just imagine having a romantic dinner together, sitting across the table from each other, looking into each others eyes, sucking on each others roasted toes... or eating steaks made from each other's thighs... how very romantic ehe <3 <3

      Thanks for your comment :)

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      • handsignals
        10 years ago

        could you please make this into a movie, I want to watch it.

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        • kinkyace
          10 years ago

          I want to watch it too!! :D

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      • Crusades
        10 years ago

        Unless this is a troll, get help!

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        • kinkyace
          10 years ago

          Hello, I assure you I am not a troll, though I do very much enjoy sitting alone under bridges... best place to drink and think, I say :p

          I was being sarcastic, in the comment you are replying to, because I found handsignals comment to be in rather poor taste, no pun intended :D

          My partner and I are very much in love and our relationship is obviously just kinkier than I previously thought :D

          Thank you for your comment, have a great day :)

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      • watashikara
        10 years ago

        Don't even waste your time cooking.

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        • kinkyace
          10 years ago

          Couldn't agree more >:@

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  • N3ONReplayz
    10 years ago

    Sexy!! I wish my girlfriend was more like you...

    Real

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    • kinkyace
      10 years ago

      Thank you :p ^_^

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  • Quiet_Lighthouse
    9 years ago

    Fetishes aren't always sexual. Sometimes they're just... kind of... weird. No offense or anything. My roommate is in Psych and lately has been obsessed with Freud and his naughtiness, so I've been contemplating getting into a sorority just so people will stop asking me why I'm making this face:
    http://i.imgur.com/gDAsjtR.jpg
    when I come into the hall in the morning.
    Needless to say, there's a perfectly tailored corner of the Internet for everyone, most of which tend to manifest themselves in the real world in the form of costumed roleplay, or cosplay. They aren't always sexual. But usually, they are.
    I'm done here. Gonna go cleanse my brain with cat videos. Later.

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    • kinkyace
      9 years ago

      hehe, best to stay away from the Hard Vore corner of the internet, it is a very disturbing place :p ...(I am a Hard Voraphile) haha

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  • familyguy63
    10 years ago

    You sure he's a man? Asexual my monkey ass! Sounds like a confidence issue,maybe a medical thing!

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    • kinkyace
      10 years ago

      sounds like a perfectly normal asexual male.. I know many of them ^_^

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  • DominusNLMHammerus
    10 years ago

    How romantic, perhaps the ultimate valentines dinner. Don't forget to cook it well and tourniquet for longer laster pleasure

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    • kinkyace
      10 years ago

      raw is always best ^_^

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      • DominusNLMHammerus
        10 years ago

        aww cute <3

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    This is most disturbing. You both should see someone before you two end doing something you later regret. Cannibalism is illegal and rightly so.

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    • kinkyace
      10 years ago

      Thanks for taking the time to comment :) much appreciated!

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  • Pubes
    10 years ago

    I like when my mate takes a massive coiler in the kitchen sink and it sits there all day filling the house with its joyous aromas. Around 5 I grab a fork and a bottle of ketchup and dine it like its 1999!

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  • green_boogers
    10 years ago

    Let's 69.

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  • noid
    10 years ago

    NO.

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