Is it normal i want to be on the receiving end of dehumanizing sexual fetishes?

So I already know that I'm into some fairly niche fetishes to begin with. But, whenever I see actual talk about them (forum conversations and such) I get the impression that this is stuff that's meant to be empowerment fantasy (or just plain look sexy) for the guy or dominant partner, while the "target" is pretty much just a piece of meat. I, however, really want to be that target.

These things include bimbofication, mind control, unwilling body alteration, and enforced slavery (though that last one is standard BDSM). I read through erotic stories and hentais with this stuff, pretending to be that girl, but it's hard to not notice how plainly such things are trying to cater to a different kind of viewer.

I know that there's pretty much no meaning to normalcy when it comes to peoples' kinks, but still.

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  • NeilYounger

    If these "things" are your fantasies I don't see any problem here. Are they normal? Fuck no. Are there others who share these sexual turn ons? Of course. So why not find a trusted male partner and act out?

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  • Tempest-au

    All these I can understand, and even call "normal", except for the "unwilling body alteration". At that, I have to echo Rose.. WTF?!?

    Seriously, are we talking surgery against your will here, or is there some other meaning I'm not grasping?

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    • Curima

      Basically the sub-genre of fetishes that include things like breast expansion (or whatever other body part), transformation, genderbending, etc., which are most common in both eastern and western artwork/stories/games rather than traditional porn. They are, in large part, pure fantasy and often revolve around magic or impossible pseudo-science.

      This sort of thing is relatively commonplace as far as implausible fetishes go, and is popularized in things like Fenoxo's work; the question here was more on the nuances.

      Not the best choice of words, I guess. The "unwilling" bit is likely implying more than it was intended to, and simply meant that the instigator would be someone else, as opposed to fantasizing about having superpowers or something.

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      • Tempest-au

        So, are we talking "I wave my magic wand and the hair on your head becomes long and blonde, and the hair on the rest of your body immediately falls out into a neat little pile on the floor"; or are we talking the same thing in a less magical sense (as in I organize a salon session to do your hair to MY specifications, and then bring you home to do a full body wax personally)?

        Just need to know if you have totally unrealistic expectations, you know, because my bimbo slaves need to "keep it real".... well, as much as they can in their empty bimbo heads. ;)

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        • Curima

          Ha, well, more the prior, less realistic sort, but I don't really act on this stuff in real life so it'd be a bit of a toss-up. Let's just say a lack of real world opportunities tends to exaggerate these kinds of interests to unrealistic proportions over the years. XD

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          • Tempest-au

            Hope you can find a Master/Daddy who can allow you to be the "real you" soon then - we don't want you performing ancient pagan rituals and taking weird drugs to feel normal...

            Or do we... ;)

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  • CDmale4fem

    What's normal these days ? And why worry about what others think is normal or not. Is it normal if I'm sitting here in a one piece bathing suit still wet from cooling off earlier ?

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    • Curima

      While sound advice, this comment does seem a bit ironic on this website, where the whole point is to ask whether things are normal. XD

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      • CDmale4fem

        So true, I agree with you. BUT it seems that many on here put seemingly way to much importance on the normality of their situation instead of just going on with life. Which I realize many of us need input from others in order to feel somewhat normal.

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  • mysistersshadow

    Its common enough in the fetish world.

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  • RoseIsabella

    ... unwilling body modification, WTF? Hell, muthafuckin no!

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