Is it normal i want to be friends with my bitter ex husband

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When were married I kind of slept around with half of his friends and his brother back in the day, I was experimenting with a lot of drugs back then. I left him at his lowest point when he was ill and left the 2 kids with him so I could find myself. I felt so stifled when we were married. He still hates me years and years and years later for abandoning him and the kids like that .He is nice to everyone else BUT ME and is happily remarried and happily retired.The kids turned out great.so I don't get why he still hates me like it happened yesterday. Being that bitter can't be healthy for him. I just want him to know I am not that person anymore. Our kids are grown and he needs to get past this.

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  • WhiteStallion
    9 years ago

    Friends...are you a troll or making a joke?
    The kids came out ok no thanks to you. Its too late for you to have this attitude. You should just apologize and disappear.

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    You don't deserve another chance. You really think you do? I hope he kicks rocks off your face.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Accept you fucked up and move on with your own life. You cannot change whats done. Theres no reason for you to dwell on it either. Just learn from mistakes and do something new.

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  • missy911
    9 years ago

    The learning & understanding that an individual can damage a relationship beyond redemption is exactly the kind of issue addressed through counseling or a 12 step program.

    This is still about what you want.

    ...accept the things I cannot change... Serenity Prayer

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Why would you want back in his life when you know it's painful for him? You sound just like the selfish bitch you describe in your post; I don't see one iota of change.
    Go away and stay away; they don't want you in their lives.

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  • theotherblonde
    9 years ago

    Leave him alone you dumb bunny haven't you done enough already.

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  • pastor_of_muppets
    9 years ago

    The term "our kids" flew right out the window when you slipped and fell onto every penis in a 40 mile radius.
    I don't blame him for hating you.

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