Is it normal i want to be a guy sometimes?

you can be my friend my gender is shrek

Try hanging out around guys that are crossdressing. Most are pretty harmless. We are still trying to like yourself, so others can try and like us at same time. Lol. Just a thought. And yed I'm a crossdressing male.

Well I am friends with a few girls and young women, especially online, and to say the truth I initially approached them because I found them to be attractive, or even interesting in some way. It was only after getting to know them that I realized many of these women were just as beautiful on the inside. But personality is not what can be immediately seen by someone else when they are observing you, so I suppose it is a natural human behavior to judge books by their cover no matter how shallow it may seem to do so.

Relating to your point about differences between genders when it comes to friendships, there was a joke I saw once that went like this: two guys who just met insult each other's mothers and they go on to become really great friends, while two girls who just met and told each other how good the other girl's hair looked become friends but flip out on each other 5 minutes later over the smallest most insignificant little thing.

Clearly that is exaggerated for comedy but it does illustrate a basic difference in mentality between the genders when it comes to friendships. Like you implied, guys are typically more upfront and direct and prefer to work out any possible issues out in the open, whereas girls typically give the appearance of being warm, friendly, and generous, but underneath the surface they often criticize and act out on jealousy and cause all sorts of drama and emotionally manipulate others and are more inclined to playing mind games. That being said, there are lots of guys who would actually say that they are envious of friendships between two females because it seems more intimate and heartfelt. For example, there are tons of guys on this site who ask questions about whether it would be considered gay for them to hug a male friend, when in fact women give hugs to each other all the time and are physically affectionate and it is just socially accepted as something that girls do. I am not really sure what I am trying to say but maybe it is a grass is greener on the other side thing, but you definitely do have a valid point.

Because I have a basic level of respect for everyone unless they give me a reason not to respect them, I treat friendships with the opposite gender as just that: friendships. Some of these girls/women are single but they never showed any real signs of being interested in me. And I can respect that. I let them know that I value their companionship and in return I let them know that they can trust me with anything. Do I flirt? Yes, but clearly not with the idea of wanting to get into a relationship. Instead, the kind of stuff I generally say is giving compliments, taking an interest in their life, sharing things about me, offering new or unique perspectives on a variety of subjects, and being supportive. I believe it is possible to find guys/men who can be good friends with girls/women, without sexual feelings getting involved. I am still attracted to several female friends who I have, but I care about them and their thoughts, opinions, and voices matter to me - which is exactly why I would never even try to push the envelope with them because I know it would not end well for either of us and that doing so would hurt them.

Maybe you need to meet more guys who aren't single.
Or hang out with gay guys.