Is it normal i want my friend to cheat on his girlfriend with me, badly?

Okay so for the past almost 3 years I have had a guy friend I've really liked, we occasionally flirt but we don't talk much because we both work + live a good 6 hours away, but besides that, he has had a girlfriend for the past 3 years, they are not super close or romantic like they used to be so my question is.... Is it normal I want him to cheat on her with me? I know that's really selfish. And sometimes I try to talk dirty to him. IIN? Please let me know.. :)

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Based on 48 votes (21 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • ThisIsntEvenMyFinalForm

    You obviously have no idea what it feels like to be cheated on.

    Whore.

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    • regisphilbin

      lol that last line made your comment totally epic

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  • JD777

    Get your own life and stop trying to do things to ruin other's lives.

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  • RoseIsabella

    People like you, it's like you want bad Karma! Any shitty that happens to you is your own damn fault.

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  • Ellenna

    Normal but not ethical.

    You say you "try" to talk dirty to him: if by that you mean he doesn't respond he's not interested so leave him alone

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  • Nokiot9

    Everyone has messed up urges sometimes. But don't follow through on it. You are probably both young, have your whole lives aHead of you and all the fish in the sea to choose from, don't ruin his loving relationship because you can't keep it in ur pants. Just wait till they break up if you really want him that badly.

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  • (s)aint

    To have desires? normal.
    To act them out?
    That makes you a shitty cunt-stenching son of a whore and I wish I could break your face for trying to ruin someone else´s relationship.

    Scum.

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    • chained_rage

      Technically that would make the OP a 'girl of a whore'

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      • (s)aint

        ... :C

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  • Aries

    you have never been cheated on have you? it's a terrible feeling and honestly he's a fucking low life himself if he gives into it but it doesn't make things any better by having you playing devil on his shoulder so I suggest leaving him alone if you really cared about him . It doesn't matter what you think they are like these days , it's not your place and if he didn't want to be with her he wouldn't need to cheat he would simply leave her and let her be with someone else . I think it might be normal for the thought to cross your mind that you like him , you would want him but to have a strong desire to have him cheat , ruin his relationship and become a total fucking jerk off .. that's not normal . Have some respect for their relationship and let him fuck his girlfriend because , you're his friend .. not his girlfriend so find another man to fuck you .

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  • MR.mr

    As long as his girlfriend inst your friend or relative, then YOU are not committing any betrayal, so go for it.

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  • D05

    It is normal but leave him alone. He is still with his girlfriend for a reason.

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  • Arm0se

    It is human nature to want the most of things we can't have, but fighting against our baser instincts is what separates us from the wilds.

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  • I think it's pretty normal to have a desire like this. What you do is a whole different story

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  • NathanScott

    Completely normal OP, stolen waters taste sweetest. A girl i was seeing came over to my place one day,in the middle of 'things' her bf called.Naturaly She didnt want to pick up but i told her i'll pull out if she didnt pick up.....She picked up...
    Anyway i digress.The only problem here is that this guy doesnt seem to be as into you as you are into him.

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    • chained_rage

      and then the dinosaurs came and everyone died.

      The End.

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