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Is it normal that I really want my fiance to lecture me, pull down my panties and give me a humiliating spanking when I act like a b#@&h?? I'm scared to tell him that I want to be spanked like a little girl getting a spanking from daddy and/or mommy.
Damn straight it's normal, discipline is a much more common fetish than most people think it is. I'd say bring it up with him, let him know you're interested in experimenting with BDSM and read up on it to ensure you're doing it safely.
Safe, sane and consensual is the key. Have a safeword that means stop, and he must stop if it becomes too much for you. But if you're both open to it, there's a wide world of all sorts of fun things awaiting you.
Yes, it is completely normal. It depends on whether your fiance is a dom or a sub. There are many men who like to give spankings, and many others who like to get spanked by their girlfriends.
Hey, who doesn't like a good spanking? I do. You should tell him (it may be a little embarrassing), for you to have a healthy relationship. If he is a good lover, then he'll do it. You may be surprised just how into it he is.