Is it normal i want my ex to be outed as a cheater?

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So i was in a relationship with this seemingly perfect guy for about a year and a half and i found out he cheated on me twice. Needless to say, we broke up. I feel like I'm pretty over it by now, but wherever i see his brother or sister around campus it makes me want to tell them really bad... What if he gets with someone else and tries to be monogamous with them? I know he can't do it and I'm not going to be around... Maybe i want to think it's an altruistic thing when it isn't, idk. His family would really harshly judge him especially because they're Mormon. I just feel like people other than just me should know. He's a cheater and he definitely hasnt told his family or friends.

Is this normal? It would be weird to just tell them right? I'm gonna leave it alone, i just want to know I'm not crazy haha

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I can certainly respect and appreciate your feelings on this one, but it's probably best to leave well enough alone on this one. He's not as slick as you may think. Karma's a bitch, but that's why I love her. For all we know someday he just might meet the Jodi Arias to his Travis Alexander, if you catch my drift.

    I hate to say this, but it's doubtful that anyone will believe anything you have to say, because you're his ex. More than likely people will just think you're crazy and still stuck on him. If you feel you simply must communicate your feelings you should probably wait patiently then send something anonymously to whomever. More than likely though people will still think it's you, if the correspondence is too soon, and this would be especially true ya'll had an especially tumultuous relationship.

    Like I said before, it may be best to leave well enough alone. Don't worry; what comes around goes around, he'll get his.

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    • fluffy1uv
      7 years ago

      Omfg i did not catch your drift at first but holy shit, I'm gonna use that, seriously cracking the fuck up rn.

      That's the thing though. It wasn't tumultuous at all... Never would have thought in a million years i would find out he was cheating. Anyway, that's really good advice and youre probably right about them believing me.

      And you're right but what if he does find that person who he screws over just as bad as me? I'd hate to know that i could have done something. Oh well. I hope he finds someone to have an open relationship with.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Hey Fluffy, I know it ain't easy, but sometimes we just have to trust God and the Universe. I personally believe that Karma is very real and one day it will bite him right on the ass.

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        • fluffy1uv
          7 years ago

          Thanks for the kind words, but if he just doesn't get in another monogamous relationship and break someone else's trust I'll be fine.

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