Is it normal i've never had sex?

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I'm a 18 year old girl and have never had sex or dated anyone, I've never really been interested even if a guy shows interest in me. I saw it as a waste of time in high school and preferred to focus on studying instead.

My mother always nags me to date someone but I'm still not really interested, I mean I'm more open to the idea however I feel like I should gain a job first though before attempting to find someone. Am I weird for never dating/having sex?

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84% Normal

Based on 108 votes (91 yes)

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Exterminator2

7 years ago

How did a normal, level headed young person like you get on this site? Do you know where you are, sweetie? Yes you are normal. And a joy to behold.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Aww, thank you :)
  
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RoseIsabella

7 years ago

Yes, I think you're fine and most likely normal. Don't change a thing, just be yourself.

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FlameDragoon

7 years ago

Unlike the majority of this current era you're just being responsible

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bigfatdick4

7 years ago

Do you at least masturbate?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Sometimes :p
  
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  - bigfatdick4
    
    7 years ago
    
    Well then you are totally normal
    
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Curiousme1981

7 years ago

This is totally okay.. this is not weird you will find someone cool....I held out and really just realised I have a dream man and continue to have mind blowing sex...
PS. I gave it up to him.

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- Dallas8
  
  7 years ago
  
  A nightmare douche bag cunt after 8 years.
  Your spelling sucks
  Meaningless and mind blowing sex once in a blue moon.
  Of course , neither one of you have a mind , so your minds combined couldnt blow a hole in a cheerio.
  Thats why her screen name is curiousme because she wants to have casual sex with strangers , that tells ya how bad she is lying about her " dream man ".
  A total permiscuous bimbo.
  Also puts 1981 in her screen name , even though she was born in 1982.
  She doesnt even know when she was born.
  How retarded is she ?
  
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Carlton03

7 years ago

I have barely dated either, and never had a real interest in it to be honest, but yeah like big fat dick said at least do that, you will be surprise how happy it can make you feel :-)

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Curima

7 years ago

As recently as 15 or so years ago, saving yourself until marriage (and by legal extension, past the age of 18) was considered a goal, prevented only by low willpower or irresponsible mistakes. I know times have changed, and these days kids don't give a care about that kind of stuff (or even less than before), but there's no way it's changed so drastically that it isn't even normal to NOT have had sex yet. Seriously, setting morality norms aside, there's no way the majority of kids that young could even manage to find a willing partner.

I'm inclined to think anyone among your peers who'd call you weird for that is just trying to make themselves feel better about their own choices, or is in your situation but wants to make it sound like they're not.

On a side note, your mother nagging you to date someone -probably- isn't encouraging you to have sex, since she's from the aforementioned waiting-for-marriage generation. Just saying.

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- Shackleford96
  
  7 years ago
  
  'but there's no way it's changed so drastically that it isn't even normal to NOT have had sex yet. Seriously, setting morality norms aside, there's no way the majority of kids that young could even manage to find a willing partner.'
  
  You couldn't be more wrong here, in my honest opinion. That is my experience at 24 years old.
  
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Goku19

7 years ago

You are normal. Dating and sex is not the part of syllabus that students have to think about.

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Dallas8

7 years ago

In this society , a virgin over the age of 12 is unheard of and one in a million.
Have you at least seen a male cock in person ?
But it doesnt excite you or turn you on ?
If you are 18 , arent you graduating in a few weeks ?
So , why are you worried about school work ?
The last month of the school year in your senior year , nobody does any school work.
It's all fun and games.

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- Exterminator2
  
  7 years ago
  
  You are out of line here. It's obvious you have no self respect as a human being, but for God's sakes could you not hold off your usual . . . Forget it. What's the sense trying to communicate with an earthworm.
  
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  - Shackleford96
    
    7 years ago
    
    Earthworms are good creatures though.
    
    I think 'tick,' 'leech,' or 'mosquito' is more befitting.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Nope, I've never seen a penis in person but I am attracted to guys. I've already graduated school, I mean that I want to find a job/work before looking to date :)
  
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  - Dallas8
    
    7 years ago
    
    In this day and age , its called a cock in everyday life.
    This isnt the medical field , so theres no point in using cute fancy medical terminology.
    Do you know what a cock and balls look like ?
    You must have seen your brother or Dad's cock when they are going in or out of the bathroom or in the shower through the curtain or when the shower curtain peels away when you have to use the bathroom at the same time or seen them jerking off or caught them having sex.
    Have your girlfriends told you what a cock feels like in the cunt , ass and mouth ?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Wow haha, you're bold aren't you? I feel like those questions are a bit personal, if kind of weird so I'm just going to pretend you didn't type up that comment, lol.
      
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      - Shiny_Down
        
        7 years ago
        
        Aww, you got trolled. You really are too good for this site.
        
        There are some people who aren't interested in giving real answers at all, and just want to be as jarring/dirty as possible. It's worse now than it once was.
        
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      - Dallas8
        
        7 years ago
        
        Whats so personal about cocks , balls , cunts , asses , tits ?
        Everybody has them , so whats the big deal ?
        Its not something that nobody has never seen before.
        You said you never saw a cock in person , but seeing you said they are personal , means that you have seen cocks in person before.
        
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        Stryk3istrukuout
        
        7 years ago
        
        This guy is a tool and exactly what's wrong with our society. Keep focusing on school and look for LOVE not sex.
        
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YellowLikePika

7 years ago

Story of my life. ~.~

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