Is it normal i've never felt important to someone?

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Please don't bother commenting Steve! I know what you're like -_-
I have had a lot of friends through my life, some were very important to me , some didn't mean as much. I know in my eyes, certain people were valuable to me. I honestly doubt they felt the same though as all the ones I cared about either ditched me or back stabbed me. I read posts where an OP has fallen for their best friend or wondering if their friend feels the same and that they would do absolutely anything for them ! Usually after reading such posts I feel very sad that I don't have a friend whom adores me as much as some of the OPs do with their friends. IIN? Anyone else feel the same?

I completely understand how you feel 7
Dont be so hard on yourself, people suck 5
You haven't met the right friends 5
You're a looser 0
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  • Steve_2
    8 years ago

    Why do you need to feel important to someone else in order to be satisfied. Who gives a shit what anyone else thinks? Almost no one you will ever meet is actually worth something to the world, so why seek validation for yourself out of their worthless opinions?

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    • thegypsysailor
      8 years ago

      Well said from a real loser who can't have any kind of relationship with any other human being.

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      • Steve_2
        8 years ago

        I have plenty of relationships with other people. Workmates, classmates, friends and many more. I don't know why you think that I am isolated or something. I live near the center of a city full of over 600,000 other people.

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        • thegypsysailor
          8 years ago

          Oh, so now you have 'classmates'? I thought you WORKED at a university, not took classes.
          Damn boy, you really are a pathetic excuse for a real live human being aren't you?
          I also remember at least a few posts in which you stated how isolated you feel, and how life wasn't worth living, etc.
          You gotta stop with all this lying, dude. Again, how can you even look in a mirror when all you see is this pitiful liar?

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          • Steve_2
            8 years ago

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            • thegypsysailor
              8 years ago

              Folks, I believe he's finally lost it. Gone gaga. Bonkers. Nutso.
              Time to call the men in the white coats.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Are you a good friend to other people?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I feel I am- I put everything into someone I care about strongly.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Then maybe you're choosing the wrong people to try & be friends with? We've all done that, had "friendships" which were very one-sided and it's part of growing up to learn how to not get into such relationships or recognise early on that it's one-sided and end it.

        I've had friends I loved dearly who used me emotionally and financially and I had to learn to stay away from such people at the first sign of feeling used.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    It could be a factor of age and maturity of you and your friends. Several of the friends I made in HS remained close friends until their death, some 40 years or more. However, it took the friendship time to mature. Some kids playing ball or going to concerts together aren't necessarily 'friends', more like close acquaintances. Over time most fall by the wayside, but the few who remain will probably be that sort of friend you are seeking.
    Have patience.

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