Is it normal i've got a sti? i've only had sex with 1 guy and he was a virgin!

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Heya I've been up ALL night worrying and googling and everything because I was wanting to check myself .. its a thing I do haven't done it in a long time but I am young in my teens and I have found white spot like things around my vaginal opening? And I've had sex with one guy we are currently still together and I'm really worried if I have a STI!? I really hope I don't it will ruin me ;( I'm very "wet" down there and I have a discharge,and I really need advise..I can't go to my mum I just couldn't so if it ends up to the point would I be able to go to the doctors without my mum ever finding out? I'm really really worried please reply!

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    I could speculate as to what it might be but there's really no point, just go to the fucking doctors as soon as possible.

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    • sweetcupquake123
      11 years ago

      Would I be able to go without my mum ever finding out or would the doctors tell me mum because I am under age...

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      • Darkoil
        11 years ago

        The doctor will not tell your mum. Patient-doctor confidentiality applies to all ages. A bit of advice though be completely honest with the doctor if he or she asks any questions that may make you feel embarrassed because if you lie it may make it hard to diagnose what is wrong.

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        • sweetcupquake123
          11 years ago

          I remember looking and seeing the spots before I'm thinking its a yeast infection! But I'm not sure and yes I'm so sure he was he wouldn't lie about that sort of stuff and I am scared to go to the doctors to find out what it was and I've had unprotected sex with him will he be okay!?

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    He obviously lied about being a virgin.

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  • bigguy2010
    11 years ago

    I used to work with a lady who was too embarrassed to see a doctor about female problems. We were all given the day off to attend her funeral. The doctor said it would have been 100% curable if she had sought help early on.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Go to the doctor. It might not be an STI, but even if it isn't, it could be a different kind of infection (it sounds like a yeast infection to me).

    In the meantime, try to calm down. Most sexually transmitted infections are curable, and even the ones that aren't are treatable. As long as you get this taken care of in a timely manner, it won't "ruin" you.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Are you absolutely sure he was a virgin or that you didn't have these before?

    Forget that you're underage and go to the fucking doctor now! The longer you put this off the more serious it could become.
    You shouldn't have to worry about the doctor telling your mom. There should be a confidentiality law...
    Stop having sexual relations with him in the mean time.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    So do you have an STI or not? Your title was misleading.
    Are you sure these spots weren't there before you had sex? Did you have unprotected sex?
    You can go see a doctor or go to a family planning clinic. It's not as embarrassing as you think it is. I have been many times in my life.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Have to treat the clap sometimes eh??

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      • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
        10 years ago

        Fortunately I haven't ever suffered from anything sexually transmitted.

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    • sweetcupquake123
      11 years ago

      Honestly don't no thinking not cuz I was a virgin and had them before but can never be sure I will be honest and say I've used a vibrator before..a friend gave me hers to try she said it would make me feel better or somthing sorry if that's gross but I'm just being honest...

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      • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
        11 years ago

        You can catch things through sharing sex toys. It's not common but it does happen. Don't worry, nothing disgusts me lol.
        Most STIs tests for women are done from a urine check so it's not embarrassing at all. You may just want a check up.
        But these spots could be normal surprisingly. They could be Fordyce spots which are small, white and painless and can be found around the vaginal opening. Many people actually have these. They cause no medical concern at all. Maybe you could find out more and see if this is actually what it is.
        About the discharge, the amount seems to change as we get older. Our lady areas never stay the same, including the cycle of our periods. You may just be noticing your discharge more because you are a bit scared about having an STI.

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        • sweetcupquake123
          11 years ago

          Thankyou and I looked down there with a mirror and its really hard to explain I just want to look normal! I'm sorry but "porn" videos over exadurate because no vagina looks like that but the boy I'm with watches porn and he will be very shoced wen he sees mine :( idk what I should do cuz I'm scared to go to the doc cuz oidkw hat I will say to my mum

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          • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
            11 years ago

            You are normal. Girls in porn are not normal. It took me a long time to realise that. If you boyfriend is a good person, trust me, he won't care what you look like.
            And I wouldn't worry about telling your mum. I'm sure she doesn't mind. Remember that she was your age once and she has probably felt the exact way you do, worried about how she looks down there. That's what mums are for. I know it's embarrassing but she will understand. You don't need to tell her about the STI part because it doesn't even sound like one to me, you can just tell her you think you are not normal down there.
            Although small white spots on the vagina area are more normal than you think. No one talks about vagina's so we don't know what's normal and that's why us women get so worried.

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