Is it normal i told my girlfriend ive had more sexual partners than i've had?

I started dating my girlfriend a year ago. We had been friends for the previous two years. During the time we were friends I lied about how many people I've slept with. In reality it has only been two, but she thinks its ten. Should I tell her the truth or is it pointless? I feel bad for lying, but sometimes I don't see the point in telling her. In case it matters we are both twenty years old.

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  • fox

    Why would you say more?? Girls don't want whores just like guys don't.

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  • iDontKnowYet

    Girls don't want a gentleman. They say the do but in the end girls don't want a gentleman. They rather have you lie and cheat , and do the things they hate .

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  • Dponce93

    I lied to my girl too fessed up its so much better now

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  • xXScYtHeXx

    I done this when I was about 16 with the girl I'm currently with. I wanted to make her like me because I'd have experiance she didn't really care though. She loves me for me and that's all that really matters. Tell her bro.

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  • Treez

    maybe she knows you lied and feels bad for you since you did but keeps it her little secret and she goes and laughs whenever shes reminded and has a story to tell

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  • CDmale4fem

    A relationship starting off with a lie is doomed to crash and burn hard. A little lie one day will lead to a little bigger lie later, and someday you wont have any idea what the truth is anymore.

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  • dafattyfat

    Don't bother telling her, she probably won't care.
    The other people you've had sex with, or not have had sex with.. don't really matter in your own relationship?
    .. She'll make fun of you when you break up anyway.
    Keep your head high <_<

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  • CptCalicoJack

    shimmy, if she doesn't know, then it can't bother her, can it?

    Tell her. You're both adults, so she should be able to accept why you had lied about it in the first place, and you will feel better for getting it off you chest.

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  • shimmy

    It doesn't matter if it doesn't bother her...

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  • stikyfangers

    Why does this subject matter? As long as you haven't been w ten girls since you've been in a relationship with her, the past is irrelevant. Leave it be

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  • pandabear1209

    Teling a girl your num is higher than it actually is is dumb, girls don't want a man whore. Fess up, she's not gonna get mad. Then she'll know your skills in bed are not from sleeping around but are talent ;)

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  • Gidget

    just tell her

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  • DanB

    Eva that's just dumb. Telling a person absolutly everything is insane. I use to try and be as honest as possible in relationships for about a year. All ended pretty quick cause brutal honesty like telling them everything they ask or wanna hear as it was or is. Isn't actually what people wanna hear. They want they're version of the truth. And since I don't think there is one perfect person for anyone I think a white lie here and there doesn't hurt.

    Also, I've been in the same situation. Slept with 1 girl, she thought it was like 7, then when she said she was happy I know what I'm doing in the bedroom it was a huge cofidence boost haha. So don't tell her/tell her doesn't really matter, cause nothing in the relationship will really change lol

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  • Lewl deserves a kick in the face. If someone lies to their bf/gf they need to fess up or shouldn't be in a relatinship to begin with if all they are gonna do is lie.

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  • lewlew80

    Don't bother fessin' up, it's not like she'll ask for names and numbers..... Or will she? :)

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  • kathleenalice

    Truth, why even lie?

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  • soccer2

    Tell her the truth

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  • Y?

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  • That's stupid you lied to begin with. Tell her the truth now.

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  • Why did you feel the need to lie?

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    • I lied originally because while we were friends we would talk about sex and I wanted to seem more experienced, since she was pretty experienced. I suppose I did not want her to think I would be terrible in bed and I wanted her to be attracted to me. I know that it would not have mattered now but at the time I did not foresee us dating ever, so I figured why not?

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