Is it normal i think women are sexist for not making sexual advances?
From what I've experienced and heard from other men, women haven't and would never approach men for their number, let alone small talk. Men initiate the conversation, women have it easy by sitting back and and finding out if the next guy is interesting enough to "build a bonfire with". How exactly did society train the female mind to be like that? Just like chivalry, this should be something kept in the past. I guess women choose to further confirm their shy, innocent-natured stereotypes.
The way I see it, women are being sexist towards themselves. "It's anti-conformist of a female to express clear interest in a guy by making the first move, therefore I will not do anything. If I never see the guy again, then that's his loss." Why do women choose to put themselves down like this?; Men already deal with the social/emotional hindrances of rejection, past trauma, and the like. I understand it varies from one place to another, but this consistency (at least in the US) is intolerable.
I believe this is why a lot of women fly under the dating radar, whether they're aware of it or not. Eventually some of them wind up on here and ask "Is it normal to still be a virgin/not have gone on a date with someone at the age of 23?" Once that happens, everyone criticizes the OP by telling her she's overlooked something simple: her social environments.
In a sense, women are hurting themselves by not trying something counter-intuitive. Ya know, instead of waiting to see who will stumble upon your path why not stumble upon someone else's path?