Is it normal i think my boyfriend is more attractive than me??

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No one has ever said that but is it weird I see it? Even though I hate rating, I feel like I'm a 5/10 and he's 10/10. He tells me I'm beautiful and that he's so lucky he has the most beautiful girl in the world inside and out but I'm like, have you seen yourself?? Before we became BF/GF, I also thought this so I don't think this has to do with me being in love with him.. I think this is a legit thing.

Another odd thing is no one has said he's attractive but I think he's so perfect looking. I don't get why they wouldn't say wow your boyfriend is so attractive. The only person who said he's attractive was my grandmother and one of my friends but most of them haven't said anything. My grandmother said he looks like a celebrity lol and my friend said "he looks like Jim Sturgess" but that's it. I really don't get it!

is it normal for no one to say anything?

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  • dom180
    9 years ago

    Lots of people think there partner is more attractive than other people do, and lots of people find themselves less attractive than other people do. It's entirely conceivable that general consensus would say you're both "a 7", but you're excessively critical of yourself and not critical of him.

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    • Mersaphe
      9 years ago

      tru dat

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  • charli.m
    9 years ago

    I feel the same. On seeing my boyfriend, one of my friends said, "Oh wow...he's actually good looking" in a tone that said "How did you manage that?!" Haha. I was well aware before that, that he's the good looker in this relationship. He seems happy enough...

    What matters, though, is that your relationship is built on more than physical appearance.

    People probably don't comment on how good looking your boyfriend is because...well it's kinda a weird thing to do, isn't it?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Is it possible you're right? Yes.
    Is it possible you're wrong? Yes.
    Is it possible you are boyh on yhe same level? Yes.

    Does any of it matter? No. You two are together and he sees you as beautiful and you view him as handsome, there is not much more you can ask for.

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    • ilovetoiletrolls
      9 years ago

      well said bro

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    Maybe people don't need to tell him maybe his looks speak for himself, also maybe people don't say anything because they don't want to appear to be flirting with him right infront of you

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  • amiami
    9 years ago

    yes its normal like come on

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