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Is it normal i think my boyfriend is a pussy

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My last boyfriend used to throw me around and just take me whenever he felt like it. He'd call me his little whore and make me suck his dick or fuck my ass really hard when he was drunk.

Anyway my new boyfriend is the complete opposite. He always says we should "make love" and always asks permission. He is gentle and kind and loving.

While its nice sometimes most of the time I just think he is a pussy and I just want him to take me and use me like a slut. Is there something wrong with me. Help!!

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Based on 28 votes (8 yes)

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Ellasmokesweeed

6 years ago

You are his sex toy, you are only used for sex - he doesn't love you.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Stop smoking so much pot and perhaps your reading comprehension will return.
  
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jethro

6 years ago

If your old boyfriend was so great, why are you no longer with him? And what made your new boyfriend so great that you became his girlfriend?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  I'm no longer with him cause he drinks all the time and I don't.
  
  I'm with my current boyfriend because in every other way but sex I love being with him. I just have no respect for him sexually and wish i could combined the two. I know that sounds bad but if my new boyfriend would just be like my old one in bed I'd be happy.
  
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[Old Memory]

6 years ago

You being a masochist doesn't make him a pussy.

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Pumpurrnickel

6 years ago

No, it's not normal to enjoy rape and dislike consensual sex.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  How is it rape if I like it??
  
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  - Pumpurrnickel
    
    6 years ago
    
    You literally said he made you. As in you had no choice. So now you're saying you did? Make up your mind.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      My boss also makes me work, it doesn't mean I am a slave. Stop taking things so literally.
      
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      - Pumpurrnickel
        
        6 years ago
        
        Then write things literally. No one goes on this site to figure out obscure meanings and then give you advice.
        
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        Kevinevan
        
        6 years ago
        
        Dude thats a pretty common figure of speech. Leave this little slut alone 😂
        
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CreamPuffs

6 years ago

Maybe you could ask him to be rougher in bed since you like it? He sounds like a decent person. If that's what a pussy is, then it's hardly an insult!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  I dunno maybe I AM just a slut cause it's a huge turnoff when he asks permission ya know.
  
  Like last week I was at a party and my ex showed up he didnt even ask he just made me blow him and his friend was even watching, and even tho I felt cheap i really loved it.
  
  Of course my curreny boyfriend would die if he knew that but I cant resist.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    6 years ago
    
    Yeah, I'm the exact opposite. I LOVE when someone asks for permission! There's no guarantee that I'll say yes, but I LOVE being asked. When someone just takes charge it annoys me, and I think WTF?! I think who the Hell is this stupid asshole that he thinks he can say or do whatever he wants to me? The more dominant a guy acts with me the less respect I have for him. To me I think really dominant people need to be knocked down a few notches.
    
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    - rayb12
      
      6 years ago
      
      But if a guy just wrote about cheating on his girlfriend would you ignore that part?
      
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      - Kevinevan
        
        6 years ago
        
        Women are so used to cheating on guys they dont recognize it when another woman says it. It's only when it happens to them they cop a fit.
        
        This stupid slut is sucking guys dicks in front of other people while her decent boyfriend is being made to look like a fool. Typical.
        
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        Butterface
        
        6 years ago
        
        I found the blowjob part of the story hilarious. Especially with someone watching.
        
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        rayb12
        
        6 years ago
        
        Rose would never cheat!!!
        
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        6 years ago
        
        No, I wouldn't, and you're right I should have mentioned it in responding to this post.
        
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    - CreamPuffs
      
      6 years ago
      
      I can relate better to Rose for sure. I certainly wouldn't mind taking a submissive role in sexual activity, but it should be pre-discussed and agreed apon.
      
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  - Butterface
    
    6 years ago
    
    This is so funny. If you're serious and not a troll it's even funnier. Made you blow him with some other dude watching? You must have no self esteem. The only thing women hate worse than assholes are "nice guys".
    
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rayb12

6 years ago

The permission thing I could see occasionally like if its with a girl that isn't super sexual and you wanna do something out of the norm.
There are ways to communicate about what you like but just being honest, not trying to make consent hot or this sterile shit. "Make love" is rly extreme I would never say that.
There are so many rape and sexual assault allegations today, with the latter becoming the former, I dont even know if you can blame him.
You could always tell him how the fuck you feel, but if that were in the cards I guess you would've done that and this would be done with already.

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RoseIsabella

6 years ago

Your new boyfriend sounds like a nice, decent guy. Your ex sounds like a piece of shit scumbag.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  You're right Rose but I miss the rough, unhindered, raw sex. I know its bad and yes my ex is a pile but my god he was great in bed.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    6 years ago
    
    That makes me sad, because it seems like a part of you prefer's the jerk to the nice guy.
    
    Nice people are so underrated! Douchebags always put on the charm so they can attract people to use and abuse. No offense, but I think your scumbag ex messed with your head.
    
    I think if you and your current boyfriend can have really good intimacy together maybe you can forget about the shitty ex. This is why I think it's messed up to get too much into fetishes, or kink, or whatever, because if it has to do with sex and orgasm it can get imprinted onto your brain.
    
    For whatever reason I'm not into really rough sex, anything that could be degrading would honestly just annoy, and anger me; it would be a total turnoff for me.
    
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JonathanOo

6 years ago

It's his nature. I would be more appreciative and it shows he is respectful. If it really bothers you let him know. I'm sure he could pretend or surprise you someday with some rough sex or whatever you want

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Wtf055

6 years ago

Just become a pornstar, you're half way there.

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Reclubed

6 years ago

Tie him up and go all S&M on his ass to teach him a lesson. Wear nipple clips so you have some fun too.

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edwininthematrix

6 years ago

your new boyfriend is a submissive beta male. I bet he secretly fantasizes about you taking him from behind while wearing a strapon. surprise him one night by tying him up to the bed and putting a blindfold on him, and then show up wearing some sexy underwear or lingerie and make him suck on your dildo before putting in his butt. he sounds like the kind of guy who would be so turned on by this. then after he orgasms, whisper in his ear that you called up your ex and will be expecting him over any minute now, and your boyfriend has to watch how a real man should treat you.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  6 years ago
  
  Actually, her boyfriend just sounds like a normal, considerate guy.
  
  Most girls would be fine with him, but op is a kinky masochist, so they're not compatible.
  
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Dustyair

6 years ago

You should dump him, look for the Ted Bundy type of guy.

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Ellasmokesweeed

6 years ago

I mean come off it, he doesn't love you if he's calling you names.

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BlackCatsAreAwesome

6 years ago

How about you tell him not to do that?

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Ellasmokesweeed

6 years ago

Your in a bad relationship, leave him idiot. Actually don't continue to be degraded and treated like poop.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Learn how to read.
  
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- RoseIsabella
  
  6 years ago
  
  I'm wit you, man... I'm wit you. Rosie ain't down wit tha rough stuff. Love gots to be sweet and slow.
  
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