Is it normal i think i lost my virginty

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Well my friend decided to take pity on me and I finally had sex I think. I mean it was just oral and fingering and stuff. is it normal to lose your virginity this way? I mean, I always thought it would be with a guy but my friend insisted we do it so I went for it. Does this mean I am no longer a virgin? Please don't think I am slutty, I just wanted to try it. It was so wonderful.

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  • HypnoDom
    5 years ago

    It sounds like you are a girl, and another girl ate you out and fingered you, and you're wondering if you can call yourself a virgin?

    "Virgin" is largely a social construct, and different people have different opinions of what it means. Some say physically it's a question of whether or not your hymen is intact, but that gets more complicated. There's a good TED Talk about this and some myths about virginity at https://www.ted.com/talks/nina_dolvik_brochmann_and_ellen_stokken_dahl_the_virginity_fraud/transcript?language=en

    I personally would say that you could still call yourself a virgin, but it's up to you how you want to describe it. What you absolutely shouldn't feel is guilty! There is far too much guilt and shame around the concept of "virginity". You did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel bad about. You are able to make your own choices about your sexual activity. Do what you will be happy with.

    The real question is if you enjoyed it--and you said it was wonderful. So what's the problem? Now decide what you want to do from here. Do you want to keep exploring with your friend? Start a romantic relationship with her?

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  • sararyan7242
    5 years ago

    You are still a virgin until he cums inside you.

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago

      I have never heard that one before 😂 Creampie as a prerequisite for losing ones virginity.

      I think OP can safely say they are either to be honest. She had her first sexual experience and seems happy about it, so that's good enough for me.

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  • DandeLION777
    5 years ago

    Completely normal

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Congrats 😊

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