Is it normal i think all men these days look gay?

I really do agree with you on the main thing I think. Personally, I've been assumed to be gay countless times due to anything from my hair length, to my penchant for brightly coloured clothes, to my taste in music. I don't fault these people for having their guesses about me, but I do for sharing their unwarranted "conclusions" with me. Even your "hard evidence" distinction between guessing gender and guessing orientation doesn't hold up in every situation. I've been genuinely mistaken for a woman twice in my adult life. I guess my secondary sex characteristics don't always come through for me.

You said I'd "...likely just be guessing", and you'd be right, but it's not exactly a guess per se, as it's unintentional. My mind just formulates these 'conditioned conjectures' we'll call them, by itself, and I'm not the only one. There's been a trend of sorts on YT lately where a lot of YouTubers have come out to their fans, but some of these people's fans weren't shocked at the coming out, but shocked that they weren't out already! They'd just presumed they were gay for years without ever having any solid proof of it, they had just assumed based upon things I'd mentioned in my last comment: voice, mannerisms, style, etc. We all make these snap presumptions about people everyday, but it's when we voice them as established truths that we frustrate people to no end. The skills we use to come to these conclusions (pattern recognition, categorization, etc.) they're crucial for everyday life. The problems arise when we use them to jump to the nearest conclusion and stubbornly stick to it without any further research or reflection because there are exceptions to EVERY rule, and this is truest when we're talking about people.

There's not an exact science behind intuition, it's just clues your subconscious starts gathering until one day your mind can't help but construct tentative conclusions from it, whether or not they're welcome or agree with your morality and/or logical reasoning or not. I am in no way presenting as indisputable, universal fact that sexual orientation is visible. Of course, that'd be a ludicrous thing for me to believe, but I can't help but casually notice certain things that some people that I've later learned are either straight or gay or whatever have in common with other people who share their identified orientation (a la gaydar). Personally, I haven't noticed anything yet that bisexual people like yourself have in common with each other. I agree with you that one simply musn't come to a firm conclusion without firm evidence, and in the case of sexual orientation, the only acceptable evidence there is for me is self identification. I can have my guesses all night and day about someone, but until the person confirms or denies these, they have no real meaning, they're just my mind at work. I'm sorry I hadn't made any of this clear in my previous comments. I'd be the worst sort of hypocrite if I were the type to presume anything as true about a person for certain without hearing it from the horse's mouth, as snap judgment in others really bugs me. I sincerely hope I'm not coming off closed-minded or offensive here, as that's NOT my goal. I'm just sharing my observations. :/

Good thinkin'.

I think I know you. You were one of the migrant farm workers that had 5 sister and you would fuck one of them while I fucked one of the others. I wish you were in town more than 3 or 4 months a year and I had to go back to just the local girls.