Is it normal i still want to date?

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I'm not the kind of person to be into dating but this girl was perfect. I being my shy self decided I'm going to wait a really long time to ask her out but before I could, she told me she was dating someone. Even after that I can't get over her. Nobody knows that I like her except myself. I have been known to be clingy but this is a bit much, even for myself.
Is it normal I still want to date this girl, even after being told she already has a boyfriend?

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Based on 35 votes (22 yes)
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  • DuHast
    7 years ago

    Actually, yeah it can be hard to get over someone if you really like them, even if they're already taken.
    Try not to let yourself indulge in thinking about her too much. That can be pretty much impossible sometimes though, so there's a point where you really just have to ride it out. Because eventually you'll get over it. You might feel like a bit of a chump for a while, but you will move on.

    And if you ever feel like she leads you on in any way, don't let that influence your feelings. Try and stay in control of how you're feeling basically. And keep real about the situation.
    But yes, when someone seems to fit you really well, you're going to be attracted to them regardless of their situation, so it's normal.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    There's nothing you can do except as DuHast says, ride it out. Try and keep busy to take your mind off her: it will get easier.

    And look at it this way: you've learned a valuable lesson about not procrastinating when you really like someone so maybe it'll be easier next time - good luck

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    • i.am.still.a.pervert
      7 years ago

      I must vehemently disagree here. The OP is SHY, so the lesson is that he would be happier with a blow up doll. Dolls never say no, and they never engage in heartbreaking behavior. If they deflate, you just buy a new one.

      You may be a master at the game of love, but you mustn't feed the OP to the sharks. Giving him false hope just encourages him to be a piece of meat for some wanton bitch. You are not being nice.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    It may be normal but you'll never get the person you want by waiting around.

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