Is it normal i see no joy in life now that she abandoned me?

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I was in a LDR for over a year with a lady but lately we were just friends. I acted in a way that she objected to because I am going thru some difficult times, she couldn't deal. Finally she abandoned me. We had an agreement we would always support each other as friends or lovers (she kept breaking up and wanting to get back). I feel really useless and see no joy in life. No reason to go on.
Am I just hurting and will it get better? I need help.

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  • Whatintarnation
    7 years ago

    Holy crap Dude. Do yourself a favor and cut off all contact. Nothing worse than a woman who plays yo-yo with your heart. Cry a few tears. Drink a few beers and move on. I've had relationships implode and it sucks. Cool thing is there's 3 billion more women out there. Find a new one and start feeling alive again. Good luck

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  • McBean
    7 years ago

    The only joy in my life is participating in discussions at IIN. I call in "innane satisfaction". Expect less, be shallow, life favors the proactive.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    This is what happens when you invest everything into one relationship: of course it then hurts like hell when it ends but this will pass if you give yourself time and focus on other things as much as you can.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    Thanks guys. I was in other relationships before but never felt so lost.
    It's like something broke in me and I can't go on.

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