Is it normal i realized im bitter to my freind?

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My friend kind of totally screwed me over. I was really sad when we were fighting but happy when we made up again recently. However after a few months I started to actually resent them but I happy we no longer are bickering. They ended up revealing my secret that no one besides them knew to everyone since we had an argument. After which they sided with my other best friend and for weeks were harassing me and trying to ruin my reputation.

This was something I told them in confidence an was sure they would keep. They might be in town next week and I was thinking maybe I could visit them. However I realized when thinking about it, I no longer want to see their disgusting face. They betrayed me and while I not going to dwell on it I dont know if I any-longer want to associate with them.

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  • LittleGirlThroatSlitSodomy
    8 years ago

    That pretty much sums it up and you don't need people on the Internet to tell you you'll always be the outcast to this particular group of people. Find new friends it's over

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      What do you mean I will always be an outcast to these people? I was the leader before all this crap went down.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    If you don't feel friendly towards this person (it is one person, isn't it? you kept writing "them"?) and you don't trust him or her to be friendly towards to you, there's no friendship in existence, so probably better to move on

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      They are friendly now but now I realized I dont any longer care for them. I was going to visit them but than I remembered everything they did and thought "Why am I still wasting my time on this worthless person".

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        This can be a difficult situation. I was recently verbally abused in public twice by someone I regarded as a friend, but now he's being "nice" as if nothing happened and I'm embarrassed to admit I'm relating back to him as if nothing happened. I HATE it that I'm responding in that way, but it's almost always around mutual friends in a social setting, so it's hard to cut him dead when he's now being ok to me.

        If it's a matter of going out of your way to visit them rather than just running into them, I wouldn't bother if I were you

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    So tell me what is so good about friendship?

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    so yall learnt a lesson bout how valuable friends is (totally worthless usually) and keepin shit to yallself

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