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I panic over my gf visit to male doctor and I told her if she ever did go to male doctor That I will leave her and that's because I love her to much and I don't want anyone else to see her body, and she keeps telling me that this is a normal thing but i don't want her visit any male doctor
Am I right?
What century are you living in? That's HER body, it doesn't belong to you so mind your own business about what doctor she goes to. In any event, why would she be naked at the doctor's clinic? She'd be wearing a medical robe, you moron.
What will happen when she's having your baby and there's no female doctor around to deliver it?
You're lucky she stays with a throwback to the middle ages like you.
You are NOT right dude. She is not going to leave you for the doctor or whatever.
The bottom line of why you shouldn't worry about this kind of stuff is simply this: if she is the type of person to cheat, then she is going to cheat. There's nothing you can possibly do about that. A circumstance that will get her to cheat either will eventually come along 100% definitely or it never will because she isn't a peice of shit. There is no in between. If she is going to she is going to, your actions won't change that
It's not about him being afraid of her cheating, it's him not wanting another man to see his girl naked
Her health is infinitely more important than his irrational feelings about her body. He doesn't own her.
I agree I said in a lower post, I understand his feeling and he should talk to her but if this doctor is the best in the area then he should consider her health first
Regardless, I don't think she should even entertain the thought of considering his feelings, because her body is none of his business. I personally hope she dumps him. I bet he's very poorly endowed.
I think you're being rather one sided. people express their affection in different ways, some guys like showing off their girls to brag, others like to keep them hidden because she's their precious treasure.
You're only looking at this from the perspective that he's trying to control her, look at from his perspective, from the way he sees it this is how he shows he cares.
I'm not saying he's right or your right, You have a perfectly legitimate point. I'm just saying look at it his way as well, you seem rather angry on this subject. And honestly I think insulting him is unnecessary.
Oh well in that case what the fuck?!? If he's a gyno he definitely isn't thinking about fucking while examining someone.
Don't worry, the doctor will probably just grope her tits and touch her pussy, nothing to worry about, not like she hasn't got touched by strangers anyway.
You're possessive and controlling, stop that shit before you lose your girlfriend.
You don't love this poor girl, you're just an obsessive asshole who wants to possess her. SHAME ON YOU!!! You don't own her, it's not your right to have these stupid ideas and opinions.
YOUR JEALOUSLY AND POSSESSIVENESS ARE LIKE A CANCER!
Might sound daft but I love seeing a male doctor especially if he is young and good looking he can examine me anytime sod what my boyfriend thinks
Er, her health is more important than your possessive feelings.
If she needs to see a doctor they will give her someone who´s avaliable regardless of their gender.
It´s another thing with me and my dude, he´s a bit hesitant to me getting my vagina tattooed by a male artist and flashing everything to him.
So we settled for me finding a female, if she´s more expensive he pays for the difference in price.
She is probably cheating on you with a black guy. Possibly a black doctor with a very large penis.
Your wish is acceptable if you have not seen any other girl besides your gf without clothes. Anybody wanting to see or touch your gf should have valid reason to do it which a doctor has that is to remove illness from the body of girl. So there is no point of getting jealous with male or female doctors as they are responsible to make bodies better. I hope you understand and do not leave her for this reason.
You sir are an idiot! Your girlfriend's body (like most of the sane people on this post are saying) is HER body not yours. Her health is far more important than your ridiculous belief that she should not be exposing her body to another man's scrutiny.
I have had male doctor's give me both pap smears and also vaginal examinations in the past (when I was pregnant) and that did not make me a slut.
She deserves a much better man than you, so do her a favour and leave her the fuck alone. Fuckwit.
I understand I really do. It might be an irrational thought but I despise the idea of a girl I'm dating going to a male doctor as well. Don't leave her over it though, talk to her explain the way it makes you feel. See if she can switch to a female doctor but UNDERSTAND if she sees this doctor for a reason like he's the best in the area, or he's been her doctor for years understand she may not want to quit going to this doctor. And if there is such a reason swallow your pride and except it, her health comes before anything else, and if you love her you should agree with that.
See my response below: HER BODY, HER CHOICE! You agree it's irrational but would expect your gf to go along with it??? That's real grownup of you: the appropriate mature thing to do about irrational thoughts is not to act on them and in particular not to expect or even ask anyone else to act on them, but to use the rational part of your brain to change them. I do not apologise for pointing out what should be obvious to anyone with half a brain who's not living in the middle ages.
you're putting aside the person's feelings though. Just because something shouldn't bother someone doesn't mean it doesn't.
I agree it's irrational but whether the pain you feel is caused by something real, or is just in your mind doesn't change the fact that it still hurts.
When you're in a relationship with someone you learn about their weird quirks and you try to compromise with them, and they in turn try to compromise on your quirks that's part of a relationship.