Is it normal i only date/befriend ppl less hot than me (so i'll look better)?

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Ok just to make it clear, I'm not saying these ppl are not unattractive at all, because they are all hot. They just don't surpass or rival me (yes I look good & know it!). Well if they do and are guys, I might still hook up with them if I feel like (rarely), but If they are girls they can just gtfo ..

In any case, normally the ppl I let myself be seen with are attractive enough for me to still look better compared to them, but not innatractive or plain enough for others to accuse me of being cheap or having no taste lol. If that makes any sense.

IIN?

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shuggy-chan

8 years ago

What a coincidence, I only date/befriend people better looking than me because I'm so ugly

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- RoseIsabella
  
  8 years ago
  
  https://youtu.be/mtPhA0Io9mk
  
  HELL YEAH!!!
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  well you're lucky in a way i guess? lol
  
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Pure_Rage

8 years ago

Do you really think people will give a shit about you because you're attractive ? Pshh

Why don't you line up with the rest of my hoes. They sure as hell look good, and they're so easy to manipulate because they're dumber than a pile of rocks.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Lol, I'm sorry to inform you but they already DO give a shit. In what rock are you living under
  
  Also if you are so damn irresistible (which i'm pretty sure you aren't) that you have a harem of good looking hoes under your bidding, then shouldn't you know this better than anyone? So retarded
  
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  - serialKiller6212
    
    8 years ago
    
    Any friend worth having doesn't give a shit about how you look! I am ugly as hell and proud of it! My friends like me because I am intelligent, funny, and a badass rock climber. Apparently the only friends you have like you because they think you are attractive, which basically means you have no friends at all!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      Why should I have friends in the first place?? lol
      
      I don't need to depend on others to be happy, succesfull and have a fulfilled life. If you do, you are just a weakling and pathetic.
      
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Ellenna

8 years ago

You seem very superficial and insecure if your self image depends on who you're seen with and if the only qualities that interest you are how people look ... how boring

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Uh, you're wrong. I am not insecure, I love & value myself and that's why I care for my image too . If someone is insecure and superficial it's the ppl who keep pinning over me isn't it? It's clear I don't care for them for anything but looks anyways (well you've actually got that part right I suppose lol. 99% of the ppl I know have nothing else going on for them so not like i have a choice). I'm sorry if I can't value ppl who don't value themselves, but its their fault
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    8 years ago
    
    So valuing oneself is all about caring about one's personal appearance? You must move in some strange circles: I don't find it hard to mainly associate with people who value themselves and others for far more important things than appearance, for example, intelligence; creativity; spirituality; kindness; supportiveness of others; humour ....... there are more qualities far more important than physical appearance but that'll do.
    
    "Image"? What is that but a manufactured concept? Who is "pinning" over you and what does that mean anyway? And it's other people's fault if you have such a superficial view of others?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      No it's not all about appearance but it plays a role. Its the first thing everyone you meet will ever see... And who are we kidding? Most of the time it's the ONLY thing as well. so Image IS important and in my case I have the obligation to mantain it as well. there's more to me than just looks of course but that's not the case for everyone, nor will everyone ever see it
      
      The ones pinnign after me are those i date/befriend and follow me around. And yes it is their fault, and you know why? Bec i'm just turning the tables on them. They are the ones who are rly superficial. They use me to climb up the social ladder, honestly they are lucky for me to allow them in the 1st place, so they have no right to complain if I also take advantage and see them as objects. Because that's reall what they are and present themselves/see others as. And i won't even get started on how 80% of them are backstabbers too..
      
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      - serialKiller6212
        
        8 years ago
        
        If I ever meet you remind me to punch you in the face.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        8 years ago
        
        lol why would be that for, being honest? Sorry for being honest, bec last time i checked it was a valuable thing. Sigh...
        
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      - Ellenna
        
        8 years ago
        
        So now people are pinnign after you? It's obviously not for your erudition.
        
        Sounds to me as if your "friends" are welcome to you and vice versa: what a pack of self-obsessed superficial losers
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        8 years ago
        
        Yeah not really, they are all too dumb to appreciate that (though I actually am smart too, just FYI)
        
        Call me a loser all you like, I bet I'm still way more accomplished (and hot) than you are anyways, so whatever lol.
        
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Insanitybxtch

8 years ago

It seems like you have self esteem issues, especially if you're befriending people who are so called "ugly-er than you"

Are you seeking some type of "hot validation/certificate?" because that's one shitty mindset to have.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  I don't have self esteem issues but do care for my self image, thank you very much.
  
  And it's not like i need certificates, like I said I'm pretty confident in my attractiveness, but boosting it is always welcome. Besides, I get to put those ppl pinning after me to some use at least. They are using me as well so it's a fair payoff
  
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  - serialKiller6212
    
    8 years ago
    
    "pinning after me?" learn how to spell!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      Well, excuuuuse me, but in case you haven't noticed already (you probably didn't?) english is not even my 1st language, and I haven't even been studying it for too long either. LOL so yeah, I'm sorry but if you are trying to imply I'm stupid it seems like your plan has failed a bit there. Try learning at least 4 other different languages and then you can come back to try.
      
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wigz

8 years ago

"the ppl I let myself be seen with"

Eeww.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  what's the issue? I care for my reputation
  
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  - Soapy_Testicles
    
    8 years ago
    
    Sounds pretty shallow, which is probably going to attract other shallow people.
    
    Which could be fun for you. Who knows? Only you.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      Attractive ppl WILL attract shallow ppl and users with 2nd intentions anyways, that's just a fact. I'm not shallow myself but whatever, might as well get used to it and make things work in my favour
      
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      - Soapy_Testicles
        
        8 years ago
        
        Well, not always, but your mind seems to be made up about it.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        8 years ago
        
        ofc it's not always, once in a while there'll be decent ones but my point stands. Esp true at school.
        
        Good looks + money = tons of shallow scum with 2nd intentions at your feet, rest of the ppl also scum but too intimidated/jealous to bother with you (thank god)
        
        Whatever, don't care for them.
        
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  - wigz
    
    8 years ago
    
    Do whatever you want then.
    
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mysistersshadow

8 years ago

I can kinda see where your coming from as I like to be the most attractive person in the room and yea just like you I get called shallow or insecure for feeling that way. I think the haters are jealous I won't always be this young and hot so I'm enjoying while I can and I don't see anything wrong with enjoying MY life.

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- serialKiller6212
  
  8 years ago
  
  It is fine for you to enjoy your life, as long as you are not being a giant dick in the process.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    8 years ago
    
    I don't act like a giant dick . Yet you and others on this website seem pretty intent on shaming me making me seem like some ignorant bitch because "omggg ur pretty, lyks it 'n is not ashamed of it HOW DARE U BITCH!!!1".. LOL well at least you guys make me laugh and I'm hotter ;)
    
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  - mysistersshadow
    
    8 years ago
    
    Seems kinda subjective.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Finally someone who gets it! I was starting to lose faith on this website already lol...
  
  Yes it's depressing how jealous some people can get.
  Seriously what is wrong with caring for your appearance and reputation?? I'm pretty sure everyone does, some of them just don't admit it because they have no confidence themselves and like to judge, shame and look down on those who do in order to feel "better" and "deeper" themselves. Between us and them, though, they are actually the shallow ones. I'd feel pity for them if they weren't so obnoxious. But yeah, while we are living our lives (and enjoying our good looks) they do nothing but whine anyways, so it's still our win lol!
  
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  - mysistersshadow
    
    8 years ago
    
    I think alot of them really are oblivious to there appearance and presentation. Oh well.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  FINALLY someone who understands, hallelujah!!!
  
  Yes that's exactly how it is, everywhere I go ppl get jealous because they don't get to enjoy the same privileges as I do and are nowhere near as confident, yet they act as if I'm in the wrong for enjoying it and should be somehow ashamed ?? And have a "shitty" attitude because I don't take crap from anyone & am honest and say exactly what is on my mind ?? Give me a break. I am a studious and hardworking person, I help others when i can and am a good citizen, I just like and love myself, and yes this does include my appearance and reputation as well. This does not make me shallow, insecure or anything of that vein. I wish more ppl could get it.
  
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Terence_the_viking

8 years ago

DEEP

except the opposite.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  and when was it that I intended to sound deep? I'm being honest and logical here
  
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  - serialKiller6212
    
    8 years ago
    
    Logic: a science that deals with the principles and criteria of validity of inference and demonstration. so what exactly is your logic? I am pretty therefore everyone else can suck dick? or maybe I am pretty therefore everyone worship me and tell me I am awesome and smart? frankly I do not see any logic in any of your previous posts.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      Not quite. My logic:
      
      I'm pretty -> people worship me because i'm pretty -> I like being worshipped because WHO ON EARTH DOESN'T, lol -> everyone is happy
      
      It's pretty straightforward, really. Nothing deep. You really must be retarded if you can't even grasp it...
      
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      - wigz
        
        8 years ago
        
        What will you do when you're not young and pretty anymore? You'll have a lot farther to fall than your 'competition'. You'll be less equipped to deal with it and may find yourself deserted and no way to cope.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        8 years ago
        
        It's not like I only have my looks, I'm smart and rich too.
        
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