Is it normal i masturbate thinking about having sex with my ex-girlfriend

I cheated on this girlfriend when she was off at college over two years ago. I'm thinking I may be polyamorous, but that's besides the point, and hopefully won't influence your vote. I sometimes fantasize about having sex with this girl still. I wouldn't try to get back together with her, but she has more sex appeal than anyone, even traditionally, or more standard "hotter" women. Gosh she's ridiculously sexy. She is sex. Anyways, is this normal?

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82% Normal
Based on 17 votes (14 yes)
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  • Darkoil

    I fantasize about many a past sexual partner, I suppose it is because we can really imagine being with them because we draw ideas from past experiences.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    masturbate over whomever you want to.

    however understand that "I'm thinking I may be polyamorous," should never be used as an excuse to cheat, or as a means to justify it.

    Granted sure, "cheating" is a bit of an odd phrase in poly but... in a true (or at least HEALTHY) poly relationship, if you want it to work, you're going to have to have a partner who's not against the idea of a metamour.

    For more advice on how to balance that out, i recommend checking out polyamory weekly.

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  • cupcake_wants

    Ur a sleazy horn dog. Lay off the porn, mf'r!

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