Is it normal i'm surprised she hasn't contacted me again.

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Quick recap. I was friends with this girl for more than a decade, even after she moved I maintained contact for years. I went to visit her one time and she treated me like absolute shit, so I broke ties with her and never contacted her again.

3 years later out of the blue she contacts me on facebook, apologizing and wanting to be friends again and whatnot.
I tried being as up front and honest as I could, I told her I wasn't mad anymore but I didn't really want to be friends again. But if she had anything to say I'd listen, we texted for a couple hours, she tried repeatedly to get me to agree to be friends again, even trying some manipulative tactics but I didn't change my mind, our conversation ended when I had to go to something I'd planned beforehand.

I don't know why this is bugging me, after 3 years I'd stopped thinking about her altogether but since she contacted me out of the blue, I'd expected she contact me again, but it's been over 2 months and nothing.
Honestly I'd prefer if she not contact me, It's just that I was expecting her too and she hasn't and for some reason that bugs me.

IIN?

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  • Freedom_
    6 years ago

    Friend breakups suck.. the exact same thing happened with me and my old bestie...about 3 years ago as well. She just seemed to be headed down a dark path and I was just leaving one and I couldn't go through it again. It as pretty selfish of me to abandon her. I believe she would have stuck by me if the situation was reversed, but it was just what I had to do at the time.

    I never really said anything about it, I just let us drift apart. I would like to talk to her again someday, but I'm not sure we could ever be friends again at this point. Not like we were. I wonder if she even realizes the ways I felt betrayed by her and I feel like she might be wondering the same about me. Maybe one day we'll catch up.

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  • fackoffwillyageez
    6 years ago

    It looks like you had feelings with her when you used to talk with her. Just don't worry about it, I had a similar situation in the past, try to forget her, even though some stuff make you remember her and make you think of her, she was just a waste of time, or believe that she was.

    If you wasn't worth any of her time for more than 3 years, she's definitely is not worth any time of yours.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    What she do when visit her??

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago

    Read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'. And stop living inside your head--it's miserable in there.

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