Is it normal i'm stuck between 2 people

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I like this girl (girl A from now on) and I've tried to pursue her and i feel like im not getting anywhere. Im actually really attracted to her, but, another girl (bestfriend of 4 years and girl B) has my attention aswell. Ive know girl A for about a year, but with girl B ive know her for 4 years, we're emotionally close and im attracted to her, but i don't know if she feels the same way. We've both been having relationship troubles and we dont know what to do because we've both been alone all the time. Im just confused at what to do.

Oh, and I've asked girl B out 3 times in the past. First time, she didn't have any feelings. A year later, after more relationship problems, she had mixed emotions and ended up turning me down again. Now, in year 4, i asked her again, explained all my feelings. Again, more mixed emotions but she didnt give a solid answer. So i assumed a turn down.

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  • RiseAgainst23
    11 years ago

    You don't want to be with someone that has turned you down three times previously. Unless you've changed completely, she isn't going to feel any different about you now than she did then.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    It doesn't sound like girl B is THAT interested in you, but she might be worried that dating you will ruin your friendship.

    Try asking out girl A (i know it's hard, but just come out and say it. Be direct.) If she's a "no" then try and get to the bottom of girl B. Talk to her, see if its the friendship she's worried about. 90% chance that's all it is. That or she's a lesbian. (lol i'm joking about the last part. Kinda)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Two girls one choice go for the one that likes you back if they both like you back go for the one you like more.

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    • Egavss
      11 years ago

      Honestly, i would choose girl B, but im not sure she feels the same way. Hopefully everything will work oit eventually :/

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      • Terence_the_viking
        11 years ago

        Waiting for things to happen is not the way forward you need to make a move.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Easy to say, hard to do. That can really backfire.

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          • Terence_the_viking
            11 years ago

            well nothing in life is certain. Suppose you do wait and they both like you but they couldn't wait for you what then?

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  • michaels4p5
    11 years ago

    another boyfriend girlfriend post my devil how many is there going to be.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    11 years ago

    Belongs in teen forum not adult forum?

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