Is it normal i'm so sick of hearing this shit

I hear it a lot everywhere but its really common on this site.

Guys will post something about their girlfriends or wives, doing something sexual or some how sex related and then they talk about how they are not comfortable with it. These things range from the hardcore, my wife wants to fuck another guy, or strip, or even something less extreme but they're still not comfortable with like seeing a male gynecologist.
And when describing how they're uncomfortable with it they will commonly say they won't let them.

What I'm sick of is people reading these posts and going,'' WON'T LET HER! You misogynistic pig halt dare you say you won't her fuck another guy, you don't own her!

I can't speak for every man, but I'm fairly certain most of the guys who post these things don't believe they own their girlfriends, they just think(quite reasonably) that seeing as they are in a relationship she should be willing to take into their feelings into consideration. If you are in a committed relationship I believe you do have a certain amount of say over each other, that's reasonable, If a girl wears a slutty outfit her boyfriend should be able to tell her to stop, If a guy is always flirting his girlfriend should be able to tell him to stop.

That's not control or abuse it's give and take. If one party refuses then they can end the relationship. But if you know your partner is completely uncomfortable with it and you still want to stay with them it's not unreasonable to make compromises.

is it normal it pisses me off when I see people immediately respond with such violent reactions to these posts?