Is it normal i'm not interested in a guy who is to eager to fuck me?

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There's a guy texting me non-stop to hook up but we have hardly spoken. It's so off putting. He says he wants to meet up to know whether we are in fact attracted to each other (met online) and take it from there. To me he just seems so desperate to fuck that I'm hardly interested. I'm not looking for a relationship but I'd like to know if we are intellectually compatible before anything. I don't want to just get together with some asshole that doesn't care about what I am like. What do you think? Is it normal to want to hook up with someone without even knowing basic stuff about them?

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Based on 51 votes (34 yes)
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  • disthing
    9 years ago | pl

    Desperation is rarely attractive, especially when the basis of it is lust.

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    • LizardSkin
      9 years ago

      Well said.

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    • Unimportant
      9 years ago

      Your answer is so good, it almost made my loins burn. Wanna hook up?

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      • peterr
        9 years ago

        You can hook up with me and suck my cock.

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    • Tommythecat.
      9 years ago

      Unless it's a hot woman acting that way.

      Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      My point exactly. Now the longer I take to reply to him, the more he messages. Ugh!

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      • dom180
        9 years ago

        You should block him. If people didn't know how to take no for an answer, I wouldn't bother messaging them.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          The funniest thing it wasn't even a "no" at first, it was more of a "slow down". I should say it then, I never did, I just evaded him.

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          • iEatZombies_
            9 years ago

            With the average person, you can just avoid and ignore and they'll fuck off. Sometimes though, you need to be blunt and assertive. They just won't take no in any other way. This is absolutely one of those times. Afterwards, cease contact. Otherwise he'll just pretend he cares so he can fuck you. He's made his intentions clear, no matter how he acts after he'll still be thinking only of that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    It isn't a good thing to do. He is probably fat in real life anyways. He just sent you pictures of his good side. Seriously it isn't normal for most people, but there are also many people who like to meet strangers and do the deed without knowing anything about them. That is usually how HIV is made.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I know the STDs part but I also know he is who he says he is and he definitely isn't fat. In fact, he's more fit than I would want a man to be.

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        He is too fit? So what, is he a walking muscle? When does one cross the line into becoming "too fit?" Just curious. This guy sounds like someone who just wants to use a girl for sex. I would stay away. Or don't...I honestly don't care what you do..I don't mean that in a mean way. Proceed with caution.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Too fit is just being too much into being fit... Anyway, I've staying away. Like I said, too eager. Hence, just looking for sex.

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          • [Old Memory]
            9 years ago

            Oh so he is an over testosterone driven meat head type? A lot of girls like that type of guy.

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          • LizardSkin
            9 years ago

            Definitely seems overly aggressive. Steroids often have that side effect.

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  • HeavenWolf
    9 years ago

    my big brother got 2 females pregnant and then left them to take care of the babys. i recomend that you wait till you get to know hem batter or block is number or numbers if that is all he wants from you

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    ...When that happens in the Chat room... I immediatly leave or say "no".

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Is EccentricWeird bothering you? Just mute him!

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      • Pika-girl
        9 years ago

        No, not him. ...Others... Yeah. I finally muted my first person!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Yay!! How did it feel?

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          • Pika-girl
            9 years ago

            Hm... Truthfully, pretty great.

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  • Parky_Parker
    9 years ago

    I laughed hard at the title. Thank you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I suppose you're welcome... Ow, I just noticed I asked two completely different questions on title and post.

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  • Bobblahblah
    9 years ago

    You're both normal in different ways. I would meet in a public place, if you really want to meet them.

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    • Lonely2
      9 years ago

      yeah, I agree with you...they are both normal...as a guy I often do want to meet...because I dont want to spend eons of time working on a relationship that there is no basic chemistry...its not just to fuck...its to see if there is mutual attraction

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I don't. He's cute and all, but just comes across as so desperate that I'm turned off... I just think he may have a point in wanting to see if it's even worth continuing talking!

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Then, don't have sex with him. What if he has an STD/STI?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      My goodness, what's wrong with you??? You seem to always ALWAYS miss the point of, like, EVERYTHING! Seriously...

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