Is it normal i'm not a feminist?

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I like the fact that feminism has gained many rights for women, but I see many flaws in today's feminism. I think it's going to far. I don't like how women have almost become hateful towards men when both men and women need each other.

I also like dominant men, and I want men to be the leaders. When I finally start a relationship, I want a strong man who is dominant and willing to take control (not in an abusive way, but with respect). Is this normal?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Sounds pretty normal to me, though I think a man can be strong and decisive without being dominant and controlling. A relationship to me is a partnership, so dominant isn't a word I'd use readily.

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    • SHAKEStheClown
      9 years ago

      Hell yeah, Popeye! Olive Oil doesn't scream POPEYE for nothing.

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    It's normal enough to not identify as a feminist, but I do think your oversimplifying areas of it.

    Also, wanting a "dominant" male doesn't make you any less of a feminist, IMO. I've said it before here, and I'll say it again: the point of feminism was to give women choices, whatever those choices may be, and that includes the freedom to be attracted to traditional gender roles.

    I feel the same way. I like my men manly, in charge and all that shit. I don't think my personal preferences and what I'm attracted to means shit all in terms of my opinions on women's rights, and in fact, I think it's my right to like whatever I want, relationship wise (now, ain't that feminist-y).

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    • daydreamer394
      9 years ago

      I like how you've put that.
      OP, feminism shouldn't be about hatred and hopefully it is a minority which paints a bad picture of them.

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  • seekelp
    9 years ago

    I look forward to the day where there is no gender and we're all robots.

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    • daydreamer394
      9 years ago

      You can sign up for it.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    I used to be one, but not anymore. My eyes have been opened. The original feminist movement was a proud cause with a good message and good intentions. 2nd wave was the beginning of the end. It lead the way to what we have now, which is 3rd wave.

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  • ToxicCrayons
    9 years ago

    Radical feminism isn't the only form of feminism. Please educate yourself.

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