Is it normal i'm muslim but only attracted to non-muslim women

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I'm a 24yr old Muslim man raised in a non-muslim cosmopolitan environment. My problem is no matter how pretty , intelligent a muslim woman is I have never been attracted to a muslim woman. There are muslims all over the world in every race and community , shape , size , beauty. Despite being exotic , I somehow am not attracted to Muslim women(even if she's from some exotic nation). Its mainly because of the greater part of my life the only Muslim women I've been in contact with have been members of my family particularly my cousins and sisters.The other day I met a beautiful Arab muslim woman but when I found out she was muslim I felt I should get her arranged with a handsome muslim man and not flirt with her. I feel kind of incestious when I think of being with a muslim woman. But the other day when I met an Arab christian lady who was not that pretty but I felt extremely attracted to her. Is it a fascination or fetish or obsession I have towards women of other religion that I see as extremely exotic. I need to change it as my parent want me to marry a muslim girl.

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  • MRmr
    11 years ago

    Obviously, you dont want to marry those ninjas

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago

      A lot of Muslim women don't wear the hijab, just so you know.

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      • Dad
        11 years ago

        But many do.
        And by going out with a Muslim you increase (significantly!) your chance of your daughter wearing them.
        They are funny looking creatures, next time one passes you by in public have a look around for a child's expression looking at them (children tend to show their true feelings in expression) Its of shock and horror.

        Yes wear the hijab in an arab country, where its ironically very hot, hey I'd probably wear something to cover my face from burning too. But in colder milder (less UV ray) countries, there is just NO need.
        These 'ninja' girls look ridiculous.

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        • EbonyDark'nessDementiaRavenWay
          11 years ago

          You ACT ridiculous, so that's even worse!

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          • Dad
            11 years ago

            Don't be ridiculous Ebony.
            And by the way, are you ever going to grow up?
            NightyDumbDumbFeatherbrainGivewaySign!
            Here's a thought, enjoy the day in the sunshine, pretty sure it would do you good.
            You could be called EbonyDaylightRationalRavenWay
            Notice that Raven's actually prefer the daytime?
            Grow up.

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            • EbonyDark'nessDementiaRavenWay
              11 years ago

              My username is supposed to be a joke...

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        • PKYAZ
          11 years ago

          Don't you think that 'christian nuns' are also covered up? Why do muslims look like ninjas to you? Why do you have to be sarcastic about how someone chooses to dress?

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          • Dad
            11 years ago

            Look I'm happy to sit down with one of these Muslims and eat some pork together and discuss dress code in 'normal' countries.
            But that ninja hoody would have to come off or I can't be held responsible from outbursts of laughter :D
            Oh I live in an eskimo igloo so I hope she won't mind if I dress up in a few coats even if its 100 outside (its just my tradition - I'd be very upset if anyone mocked my attire in a totally different country and climate from whence it came!)

            As for 'Christian nuns', mad as a hatter. They are hilarious, they actually feel that 'god' (say what?) sent down his own son (as himself I hear! Lol) 2000 or so, years ago. I mean these people should NOT be around children ever.

            But back to Muslims, they are here to make us laugh and pity their ignorance. ALL religious people are a poor representation of the modern human mind. Thankfully they are a dieing breed in these religiously desperate years.

            All praise the spaghetti monster in the sky, or not.

            And WHY, just why, didn't you quote Satan worshipers? They have equal rights to any other religious nut.

            Did I mention I'm atheist? And for good common sense reason. I hope to marry a Muslim woman one day, and convert her to sanity. Then we can all wear t-shirts saying Allah and Muhammad are dirty pigs. ANY Muslim (disgusting male, or slave woman) would love it ;) Don't you think so?

            Oh, and I hold offense to you implying I'm sarcastic. I'm a realist and only speak the truth.

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            • PKYAZ
              11 years ago

              I respect your opinion. But you're missing out on the beauty of religion.

              Yet again, you shouldn't make fun of people because of their beliefs or their dress code.

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  • snafu
    11 years ago

    yes it normal have you ever seen a hot muslum woman?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Thanks for all ur comments and views. Judging by them, I should most certainly go with my instincts ie, with a non-muslim woman.I should do what my heart tells me. But muslim women (being my sisters) I like to send a message to those who are saying muslim women are ugly and not hot(wear hijab all the time): Go to Turkey(hijab is banned), Syria, Lebanon, Algeria, Egypt, Bosnia, Kosovo, Albania, Iran, u'll surely take back what you said. If anything , I know hundreds of non-muslim men who would marry a muslim girl in a heart beat because they are modest,exclusively love their husbands, and make the most obedient wives.

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    • snafu
      11 years ago

      what a bullshit comment!!!! men don't want obedient wifes.
      I want my wife to have free will!!! obedient thats someting you expect from a child, not a grown women.
      Then you muslums wonder why we all mock you, Does it say in the coran "you should not beat your wife as you would a slave" you have got to be kidding, you should never touch a woman in a violent manner ever. If you don't like western ways go back east. You want a western women, and you will expect her to be obedient, well that will never happen, so if you want obedient marry an uglu muslum..

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago

        Lets not turn this into muslim woman vs western woman thread.
        If western women(esp USA) are so good why does USA have one of the highest divorce rates in the world. Thats what happens when u give too much freedom to women who dont deserve it.
        Why are there so many threads on the net regarding american women being over demanding feminist bitches(Most of them 4m american men).
        So many americans going to eastern europe and asia for wives.explain that!
        When I say obedient I refer to an act of love she expresses towards me simply because she loves me and cares for me in an unconditional way.And its not a one way process carried out forcefully, its because she is so, humble , pious, caring, its becomes all the more easy for a man to treat her like a queen. I will never force my wife to obey me or even tell her for that matter but it would bring immense joy to me if she does as I say and my respect for her would increase exponentially..Western women demand you to love them unconditionally and pamper them limitlessly(if you dont , ur a bad husband/boyfriend, sometimes even after all the pampering & loving,she leaves you or has extramarital affairs) but Muslim women expect nothing more than love and her loyality is unquestionable(she barely even talks to unrelated men) thats why she gets all that she wants.
        And dont say muslim women are ugly, go to India,christian women there are ugly as shit, or better go to britain(considered to have one the most ugly looking women), but as a real man its pathetic to call women ugly. To me no woman is ugly.
        BTW, unlike an ignorant reterd such as you who generalized all Muslim men and women, I wont generalise all western women as being bitchy. So many Indian, Eastern european , Chinese , Korean women are so western yet they are unspoilt by feminism, and have high traditional values.I would most definately marry one of the above. Extreme Feminism is my enemy, how ironically it formed in western countries where women were treated the best(compared to asia/africa). It should certainly exist as a means to combat violence/prejudice against women, but that is where it should stop.
        Dont even start boasting abt how good ur western society is,even you know thats so false. What has so much freedom given you-adultery, pornography,divorce I even heard so many perverted western men paid other men to have sex with their wives.(good job western men, keep it up)I'm not generalizing all western men, I'm just giving you a taste of what we muslims feel when you western people generalize us.

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        • GoraIntoDesiGals
          11 years ago

          I agree. I would like a pretty, obedient muslim girl. Too bad they aren't allowed to date non-muslim men. I don't want some white feminist.

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    • abominus566
      11 years ago

      you should always follow you heart

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    • thepearl
      11 years ago

      GOOD LUCK

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    • zelskid
      11 years ago

      Send me a pretty one with big tits

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  • spazatikal
    11 years ago

    I'd say, the heart wants what the hearts wants.
    I understand that being in a strong religion/tradition (the bit about your parents), but you shouldn't force attraction or desire.
    I don't think it's a problem to be attracted to women of other religions, it may just be because you find it out of your realm; your element. You probably like discovering new things, being adventurous, and exploring new areas of life than what you're used to.
    It's just like (sorry to bring up race!) how a lot of white people are attracted to non-white people, like me. I don't really like white guys or girls because they are too similar. I like different cultures, the difference in how each person is brought up...but that's just me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Because they're ugly.

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  • GYBY
    7 years ago

    Nothing is exotic anymore.

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  • thepearl
    11 years ago

    Hey
    Your subject is so sensitive and depends on your heart and not the views of the people ,

    Every man wishes woman Specials him alone have not been shared by any one other Here are the Muslim women hide vintage femininity in there hejab and her wide dress to hide her vintage femininity and to be HIS OWN she don't like to be shared

    Respect for religions and duty Giving and charity, tolerance and abstinence are principles of Islam So its good don't worry :D

    This women don't show her beauty to all she hide it with hejab but also she's like the pearl on hard ways one person could get her and she's not a flower any one could pick up her !!!!!!!! ,

    Her majesty Queen of england no one could shake hands with her as the muslim women its hard for any man to get her she's too expensive and beauty they will appear vintage beauty and femininity for you ALONE and you'll see the beauty that you didn't taste it before this beauty were hide with hejab to be only your's mr.

    Follow your heart don't listen to people opinion because they could change their opinion if they were In your situation

    And if you want to be muslim I guess you will find love and respect there but you must know about it first

    I'm here represent Islam and applied it and I hope I applied it in a good way

    I hope from every one respect all religions and understood freedom to profess any religion

    AND DON'T FORGET TO FOLLOW YOU'R HART AND DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT PEOPLE SAID CUZ YOU WILL LIVE NOT THEM AND LIVE IT AS YOU WANT ALSO THEY MAY CHANGE THEIR OPINION IF THEY WERE IN YOUR SITUATION

    Best wishes for you ;*

    *******FOR WHO SAID THEY ARE NINJA MOTHER OF JESUS CHRIST SHE WAS WEARING HEJAB :D

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  • pambambam
    11 years ago

    All man like whores!

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  • abominus566
    11 years ago

    that sounds normal to me, you can be with whom ever you want dude

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    • thepearl
      11 years ago

      AGREE

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