Is it normal i'm jealous of people who enjoy parties?

I don't enjoy college parties, I just can't get into them.

I just can't enjoy them, I hate the music being so loud it makes the walls vibrate, I don't drink, and strange as it may sound I don't want to hook up with some random party girl. I know the last one is weird, I like playing around with random girls but when it gets to the point of actual sex, I prefer it be someone I actually know.

Anyways I know its weird but sometimes I feel jealous of the people who can get into them and enjoy it. I've been to several of the parties at my college, and I can't enjoy it, even when I'm with friends, the music gets so loud my ears feel like they'll split and I just can't enjoy it.

is it normal I don't enjoy parties at all and yet I'm sometimes jealous of those who do.

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Based on 35 votes (29 yes)
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  • DuHast

    Normal, the only way to enjoy some things is to be drunk or on drugs.

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  • Bighohnson

    Yep its normal party's jus aint for sum people but it is better to enjoy wen your drunk and on drugs makes things interesting

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  • Bighohnson

    Maybe not lsd that shit will fuck your world up did the first time i took it should have refered X with alil weed that shit will mellow u out

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  • Mario214

    Yu ou are perfectly normal. As you don't drink and you don't enjoy loud music it's obvious you will not enjoy those college parties.
    There is no need to feel jealous. Participate in the things you like and I sure you will enjoy your time as well.
    Remember you have healthier habits and you should feel good about it.

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  • Dreamsao

    Nothing wrong with that. Those parties are for dummies to get dumber and you're way too smart for that.

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    • thank you

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  • sillygirl77

    Totally normal as far as I am concerned. I can relate to an extent. I didn't drink in college and I don't drink now (I drank a bit in my 20's after college but didn't enjoy it much). I wished in a way I could be part of the fun and enjoy those kinds of things like those parties etc, but I just didn't. In college, it can be lonely if you don't drink. It can be lonely to a lesser extent sometimes as full fledged adult for lack of better word. I find it takes a bit longer to find friends that you can bond with without alcohol, because many people around me at least seem very into drinking, but I find them just more slowly. My husband rarely drinks so we have that in common!

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  • RoseIsabella

    When I was in college I was more of bar and nightclub person than a house party person. I really enjoyed going to the local gay bar with my friends, because the music was great and I loved dancing the night away, not to mention I always felt safe! One thing I hated about house parties was the stupid, boring drinking games. I also liked going to dive bars to hear live bands play as well as small, intimate gatherings with my closest friends.

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    • Bighohnson

      I bet u are a fun to party with up for any kind of scene and i bet u get pretty crazy and wild wen u do all that

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