Is it normal i'm in love with an older woman

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There's a woman in my neighborhood a few houses down that I have deep feelings for, I'm 18 she's 38 but I really want to date her she's single and lives alone, we are good friends and get along great, she is also friends with my family so I see her a lot, i often hangout at her place just us two but she didn't know I want her as a gf, she once had a hard day at work and sat together in her couch and she feel dead asleep, and Ik it sounds creepy but anyone with deep feelings for someone they can't have might understand but I just watched her sleep and think of how lovely it would be if she was mine, I let her hair and cuddled her, I got brave and was gonna lightly kiss her libs but she started moving and woke up didn't see me tho, point is how do I make her mine any advice is helpful and please don't say oh your a creep, it's been a long time of nothing, please leave as many detailed and helpful comments as possible, thank you all so much

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  • AngelLoc
    6 years ago

    I know a few couples who are 15-35 years apart in age. It's perfectly normal. As a girl, I advice you not to invade her personal space (unless you two are dating), that's a major turn off for me whether I like the boy or not. If she caught you, you wouldve ruined her trust and your chances. Anyway, if youre scared of telling her right away, just drop some hints first then tell her how you feel. Are you just going to wait until she finds somebody else?

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    6 years ago

    In case you're no troll, yeah, it's time to tell her.
    She might turn you down and your family will probably think it's weird. But you're very young and she'll definitely understand. In fact: I'd be willing to bet she already knows. If you're feeling this desperate and you guys are close there's no way in hell she didn't notice.

    Oh, and I won't call you a creep, but you never touch someone when they're asleep. That's a no go, no matter how you feel.

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  • leah-beth1997
    6 years ago

    Tell her how you feel. I'm dating an older person too.

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    • MorganEater321
      6 years ago

      How did you tell him/her, if you can be as specific as possible please

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