Is it normal i'm dating a narcissist?

Everytime I compliment my bf, he'll be like, "I know right?" and he refers to himself as "the most awesome person ever" Then again,my friends bf is similar, he has about 300 shirtless selfies of himself so I guess it's not too weird?

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  • lolol555

    Eh? What's wrong with that? He just sounds confident to me. It's your friend's bf with the 300 shirtless pics that's a bit unusual.

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  • Is he even diagnosed or are you diagnosing him?

    Most people have narcissistic traits and what you described seems pretty normal. It's when someone becomes overly narcissistic that they can become very difficult to deal with and they think they are always right.

    When dating anyone you have to look at their worst traits and ask yourself if you can deal with that or not because they are very unlikely to change.

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  • Crμsades

    He's not a narcissist. A real narcissists would never admit being one. Because that would highlight his arrogance and self importance. These are all ugly flaws.A narcissist would never show that he has flaws.

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    • Meh, yes and no. It depends. Some narcissists can admit to being as such but don't see it as a negative thing. That said, I don't think it was suggested that her BF admited to being one.

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      • Avi

        ItDuz is right.I am a narcissistic bastard.We hate and (erotically) love ourselves.The love idea is just a veil that hides monsters that crawl deep inside our beings.It hides the many deffects we have.It's a love/hate relationship with ourselves.

        I would write more,but I'm lazy........

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        • Yeah, about being a narcissist and being on this site, Avi? Watch this video for my response to that.

          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmNU8blUwms

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          • Avi

            Don't take things the wrong way.Anyway..

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      • marley1

        does this actual site reply to alls querys . ive sent 2 and nothing not even answered back ?? with your advice or a sceptiacal answer use could give ??

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      • Crμsades

        People have different theories regarding narcissism. It's a really complex issue. Psychologists say that narcissism goes through different stages as time goes by depending on their experiences.

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        • You know, people often complain about you...Not sure if you troll or it's just how you are, but whenever I see you offer to the discussions you tend to offer different aspects of the subject that would be beneficial to the discussion. You should do that more often, I get the feeling you have far more to offer than most beleieve.

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          • Crμsades

            I tried that 3 years ago, to no avail. Offering serious advice on this site is a waste of time. And not only here but wherever there's an abundance of liberals and hipsters. You can't put some sense into these people since they're too stubborn and rigid. They'll hold on to their childish beliefs no matter what.

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            • Yeah, I kind of gathered that would be the reason. I've noticed that a few users on here who used to be more serious in the advice they give have just became trolls or can't be assed most of the time.

              But I agree, most people don't want new information, they want to be agreed with and if you can give information as to why not, well, then you become one of the targets of the community to an extent.

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    • Tommythecat.

      Correcto!

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  • seakelp

    Does he have his own picture on his desk?

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  • green_boogers

    You'll be sorry.

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  • Avi

    It's normal because they take the form of perfection.They make you want them.
    But it's not mentally healthy for you.

    Still,describe his actions more.The short description just tells a bitchy confidence.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Narcissism is sadly becoming a common trend among society youth generation.

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  • ilovetoiletrolls

    It's not normal, he's arrogant and self-centered. I've dated about 7 guys like this before and they all ended for a reason, thankfully.

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    • Crμsades

      You had to date 7 douchebags to finally figure out that something's wrong with your criteria of choosing men. Nice...

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      • NotTheSun

        You have to thumb yourself up, with all 3 of your accounts, to attain better karma, since your trolling got the best of them and two comments a day, just didn't do.

        You had to lose 3 accounts, near 4, to realize there's something wrong with your inner thoughts. Nice...

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        • Crμsades

          You need help.

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          • NotTheSun

            You want help; 3 plus years, dedicated to trolling this site, I applaud this dedication.

            However, I applaud my incessant badgering, much more. You know you love me. Even more than LA Beast.

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      • ilovetoiletrolls

        I couldn't find any good guy for a while so figured let's just try these...

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        • I hate to agree with anything crusades has to say but....7 douches just because you perceived that there were no other decent guys?? It seems like you just prefer to be with douchey guys...**takes bite out of sandwich**

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          • NotTheSun

            He agrees with himself, too. Narcissistic. No. Delusional. Probably.

            Good to see he is now trying to sound moderately dickish. Losing 4 accounts? That's not definitely not "finally figured out that something's wrong with your criteria of choosing comMENts"...

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          • ilovetoiletrolls

            Hope that's a good sandwich. Well I guess I wasn't looking for anything serious so I just thought since they're attractive to me and fun/outgoing, I might as well but they all proved to be arrogant. It just happened to be that all the outgoing guys were this way so now I stick with "slightly" outgoing or middle-ground and it's so much better as they're more down to earth and all.

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