Is it normal i'm best friends with my ex boyfriend? (see detalis below?)

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We also still have feelings for eachother. We keep in touch and video chat. I only recently found out he still liked me, and this happened about half a year ago. We broke up because he moved to a different country, plus his ex wanted to kill me. Literally...
...It's a long story, this is the shortest I could make it. Don't ask. Haha.
Anyone else best friends with their ex? If so, why?

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Based on 27 votes (13 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I'm going to find out where you live and rape you.

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    • RainbowShy
      11 years ago

      Haha, I'm guessing you're a well known troll on here? Cool. ^u^

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        I do both, i give my honest opinions sometimes...and other times i troll. Best of both i am i am.

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    • plum6
      11 years ago

      I find you retarded yet very entertaining at all times.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Well i'm retardedly entertaining, but not retarded or entertaining.

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        • plum6
          11 years ago

          let's just call it a special talent then.

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  • 321cba
    11 years ago

    I am friends with my ex's. Idc what anyone says, it is possible to be friends with them. We still talk every once in a while but we just don't hang out. Hope it works out for you!!!

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    Get a dildo and deep throat it close up on can when u video chat. That will motivate him to come back!

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  • buttons
    11 years ago

    This is wrong. His girlfriend was right... You two should be ashamed.

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    It is physically, mentally and emotionally impossible to remain friends with an ex. Feelings are still there. You cannot just wipe them clean.

    I am sorry to hear of your situation. it sounds like you and he will have to put your
    feelings aside for now. But see what the future holds?

    Tommy the cat is on the prowl. Ohhhh! I am shivering in my boots.

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  • chatter289
    11 years ago

    Ok I don't want to sound like a hypocrit but here it goes. I don't believe you should remain 'friends' with your ex partners. The idea of remaining 'friends' is one which, maybe many would agree would be true but would deny it to themselves, is the idea that in the future maybe something may happen or of you don't find anyone else you can kind of get back together. For those who may reply to this post and say, no there is no underlying issue we are just 'friends' bla bla bla you know it's bullshit!

    How can you be friends with someone you were attracted too and had sexual relations? The aswer is you can't, unless one of them is completely gay lol then the circumstance will change! Men and women are at some level sexually attracted to one another (this is applicable to homosexual couples too). My bf stays in touch with his ex girlfriends, I don't mind it that much now but I still don't approve! How would one feel if their partner turned around and said, 'oh hey baby I'm going to have lunch with my ex bf/bf'.... Catch my drift? It won't work. Now here is my contradiction. I stay 'friends' with my ex primarily because he lives in the stated and me in the Uk! Why is that different from my bf? Well, I will NEVER run into my ex walking down the street! Once You're in a relationship with someone you form a certain attachment with them which you carry it's you in pretty much everything relationship (Bowlbys theory of attachment). And also the saying, 'old flames are easy to get back'.

    If you're single than I guess to a certain extent it's ok to be friends as you're not doing anything wrong, in a relationship and friends with ex's .... Neichhhhh good!

    That's my perspective anyways. Hope that helps x

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