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Cant find a gf! I'm heading to age 30 and life is flying !! All I do is work, come home and complain about working my life away and never having more money to do anything but pay Bill's! I'm femme and work outside so I'm not unattractive. I been to all LGBT events and clubs and tried ALL fuking dating sites n apps.
Stop complaining about life... Who want's to be with a complainer.
Try this:
1) Every morning when you get up list 10 things that you are grateful about.
2) Mentally apologize or send love to several people where there are issues between you (better if you can send an actual message - but at least do it mentally).
3) Take 5 minutes, relax, and open your mind to guidance from the universe or your spiritual being.
When you meet people talk positive... you'll attract people that way.
ps: I did'nt start dating until 26 or 27 myself. I was too negative and my social skill pushed people away.
pps: Get the book "How to win friends and influence people - in the digital age" Read it every year (or more often). I've read it at least 20 times and I still get new information from it each time I read it as I've improved enough to understand the next step information in the book.
I wish you well in this,
Yes... In fact, I'd say that book and similar ones to it are the only reason I found good relationships and am now happily married...
The other thing... it will help you increase your income too in the long run. People are paid based on the EQ, not their IQ. Social skills are a key part of Emotional Intellegence (EQ).
"Reading is how you update your mental Apps"
I wish you well...
Well theres your problem your going to LGBT stuff and using dating apps. Go to real stuff that isnt full of cancer
Go to a bar every day. Get drunk beford you go so you dont have to spend 100 a week there.
Stop looking so hard. You wont find something when you are deadset on finding it. Just relax, focus on other aspects of your life, job, education, etc.