Is it normal i'm afraid to orgasm...

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Okay so right now I have a long distance boyfriend, and whenever we get the chance we do things on skype. But whenever I'm about to orgasm I just stop or tell him it already happened. This has happened with boyfriends I've had to the past when they really are touching me. When I get close I'm afraid I'm going to pee or I'm just afraid of the heavy and unusual feeling that comes to me. What should I do?

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    go to the toilet right beforehand?
    i can understand your fears a bit, one time, when i was seriously drunk during a ONS, i did pee a bit during orgasm and wetted the guys bed. luckily it turned out that he was into watersports, so he actually didn't mind and we went over to the bathtub and worked with that. Still made me self-conscious-

    How is it when you masturbate?
    If you were only afraid of the peeing part and that's something that happens to you, you could just adjust the webcam a bit before you climax...if you are scared of the sounds and faces you make, let me assure you that in the heat of the moment it's actually a huge turn-on for guys.
    If your problem lies in the "heavy and unusual" feeling, i could only suggest you "train" by yourself to get more comfortable with this feeling.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    the "pee" feeling is normal when you're about to orgasm. if you're afraid then consider... peeing first, or just put a matt or towel down under you so then you don't have to worry about making a mess.

    cos ... you know, sex IS messy. it's suppose to be

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  • Alex_Gee
    12 years ago

    Totally agree with Angel - its completely normal! Try masturbating but when u get the urge to pee just dont stop and keep going. You'll probably feel like you're gonna burst but the feeling u get when u cum will be so worth it! Ax

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    • sydney1234
      11 years ago

      Skype me at sydney-sloan... I'm from the us and my pic is of me wearing a hat outside :P

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Have him tie you up?

    Only if you really trust him though...

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