Is it normal i love my friend?

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Me and my friend have been friends for many years now and we basically grew up together. Eventually as a teenager I realized I had feelings for my friend, however I was too scared to admit it and my friend began dating someone else.

I decided to let it go, I feel like if I admitted my feelings I would ruin the friendship and there's always the chance of rejection.

A while ago my friend broke up with the person they were dating however just recently they began dating someone else, I felt extremely jealous and I was really angry, honestly I couldn't stop it and even thought about killing my friends date.

I would literally die for my friend, I love them so much and I don't want to feel like this, if dating that person makes my friend happy I should accept it, but I can't.

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Based on 35 votes (30 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    This is a same sex best "friend", huh?

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  • AnUneatenCarrot
    8 years ago

    You only live one time. That's why I say YOLO and just tell this friends of yours about your feelings for her and her other relationships. Will you really be able to live your whole life without telling her? Or will you ever forgive yourself when it's too late?

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  • Ipooprainbows
    8 years ago

    I know how you feel as I have been/am in a similar situation. I'm seriously thinking of telling my friend about my feelings. After all its been many years and I have everything to gain & nothing to lose. I think u should confess and get it off your chest otherwise you'll regret it later. Sometimes we have to take a deep breath and take the plunge because we only have one life and sometimes u just have to take risks for the things you truly want!

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