Is it normal i liked when my girlfriend made out with other girls?

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I have seen quite a few topics regarding this and am curious why so many people are bothered by it.

This is old news since we broke up years ago, but my girlfriend at the time was bi and she used to make out with all my female friends. I thought it was hot and encouraged it.
At one time I even wanted her to get a girlfriend as well so she wouldnt need so much attention.
If I have another girlfriend in the future I would like a similar situation.

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  • Zalenn
    9 years ago

    I absolutely agree that many people are neurotic about emotions. I largely blame the idiotic society we live in for that. Everyone either treats everything as disposable (what isn't these days) or is on the opposite end, and will cling to ANYTHING because they have been disposed of too many times.

    I understand what you mean by not being able to place distinctions between friends, family, and whatnot when it comes to care - Not actually that uncommon.

    In many ways i'm like that as well. I've been with someone for years however, and cannot say that things haven't evolved to be on a totally different level.

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  • Zalenn
    9 years ago

    My favorite "I encouraged her to get a girlfriend so she didn't need as much attention"

    Tbh, sounds like you may have been more interested in the prospects having a girlfriend entailed - and less so in her as a partner and person.

    Sounds like a sexual based relationship - many are. If that it what you seek, seek those who want the same - and you will find precisely what you look for.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      I think the opposite might be true. Before our friendship evolved into a relationship I absoultly hated the concept of relationships but I tried it because I did really like her. It ended up being way to much for me and we broke up but are still good friends. She actually broke up with me because she felt we were incompatible. I have come to the conclusion I am unable to feel romantic love as well as some other feelings people have, but I am able to love people in a way that I care about them. I just have no distinction between different types of those emotions. I know it sounds arrogant but I do think my emotional processing is more evolved and that humans typically over think them and act illogical and neurotic for reasons I do not know. I would describe the way I process emotions as having thoughts that are either positive or negative and I act accordingly based off what I think is the best outcome.

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  • farkelu
    9 years ago

    It's not normal for a girl to make out with all her girlfriends. Most don't. But I think it's perfectly normal for you to be turned on by it.

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  • Thewomanizer
    9 years ago

    I think this is normal as I know lots of guys enjoy watching girls make out with each other weirdly enough.

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