Is it normal i like depressed girls?

I met this girl online and she looks depressed. She told me she cuts herself and has contemplated suicide. I find this extremely attractive. Is it normal?

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Based on 67 votes (27 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • arcai921

    i see a girl sad and the only thing i want to do is make them smile, so yeah normal. No one should be sad and we have to, as a community make life easier for each individual member.

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  • joybird

    That girl need professional help. You would need to be careful that you don't do more harm than good if you get involved with her. How could you ever dump her in the future?

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  • Pinkypiepoe

    Its not...unnormal. Its natural to lust for soneone who pushes boundrys

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  • KokoroComplex

    Is it because you want to help her...?

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  • You probably just want to bring her happiness to get out of this state she's in.

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  • No. What the hell about that is sexy. Bleh. Unless you're the type who either wants to prey on someone vulnerable, or help someone in distress. Which is it?

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    • phuckejiu

      Help

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  • alv1592

    That's not sexy, it's sad...

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  • nAt2017

    As chicken371bologna said, be careful what you wish for. If I were you, I wouldn't look for a romantic relationship with a depressed girl unless you plan on trying to help her.

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  • Venomx3

    Well, I kinda feel the same.
    All my gf's were depressive, when I first met them.
    It's not like I think that's cute, sexy, whatever - hell no!
    It's just .. I want them to cheer up, stop their cutting and their suicide thoughts.
    And the best way to do this is with love.

    It's awesome to see their smiles and their happyness. :)

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  • He didnt say it was sexy, just attractive. Maybe it's like he wants to cheer her up, make her happy. If so, that's cute(:

    Also, when i was depressed, i wanted to be with other ppl who were also depressed just cause misery loves company i guess

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  • Ark

    depressed no low self esteem yes
    take her and show her how beautiful she really is

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  • chicken471bologna

    Be careful what you wish for!

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  • koko91

    i like depressed girls , but the ones wanna suicide >> hell NO

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