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When I'm having sex its a chore to give a girls pussy attention. I know it's weird but I just get fixated on her asshole. I want to give it all the attention. I still flick her clit and that kind of stuff just to try to get her off but it it were up to me I'd have her pussy sewed shut and just fuck her asshole. Am I gay? Why am I like this?
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What's not normal is that you regard giving women vaginal pleasure as a chore and want it sewed shut. Maybe you are gay? You certainly seem to be anally fixated.
It's normal to enjoy anal sex if both parties like it, but your attitude just isn't normal at all.
To be perfectly honest... anal kinda sucks. The naughty taboo thing is fun but after like 5 minutes, the room starts to smell... "poopy". The smell of shit is NOT a turn on for me. And there is a "gritty" texture I dont much care for. Also, some chicks just dont like it no matter how good you are at getting them to relax. For me, if the lady isnt enjoying things 100% it distracts me for enjoying things because I get off on getting her off. Why waste all that time and energy trying to wear that trashcan on your feet when literally right next to it is a fucking AWESOME pair of shoes custom built and Taylor made to go the distance. A perfect machine effectively self lubricating to protect all the moving parts and ensure the arrival to the land of clenched legs and twitching hips. My favorite town to visit because it's always a good time had by all. And if you're smart enough to listen carefully, your lady tour guide will tell you the best way to get there and then all bets are off because were both getting fired for missing work..... forget that coal car friend. The seat you want on this train is one car forward. Hang on to your hat because it's a wild ride.....
Maybe don't fuck with homeless people?
I've never had any poop smell problem when doing anal with a girl. And I've seen girl having incredible orgasms from anal.
You're probably just bad at sex.
Thanks for that in depth analysis there james! Your perception is wildly inaccurate but what can you expect from an amature shrink using their own experience as a guide for what is both possible and probable. As to my prowess in the sack? Had you read my comment using an analytical thought process you would realize that your comment was, again, a failure on your part to surmise any usable information about the person to whom you replied to.
Back to the drawing board little jimmy...
I've never smelt the poop smell during anal. The worst experience is a chic had gas I think and I smelt that but that was only once out of 50 times. I like it.
This is almost poetic... +1 from me.
I agree 100%. I don't like anal and it's nothing to do with my sex skills, it's just a preference. My girlfriend hates the concept of anal too, so we're cool doing it standard.
One of the biggest turn ons for me is making my girl squirm from pleasure. You get her to orgasm and she'll rev you up in to the red and give you the ride of a lifetime.
Also I love to be able to see her face. It's one of the hottest things. Staring at an ass does nothing for me.
Who knows why you have this fixation? Maybe your mother has a faeces phobia which you picked up on when you were very young, so now anything to do with violating the anus and shit taboo is very potent for you.
One thing is certain: if you're primarily or exclusively sexually attracted to women, you aren't gay.
Something else that's clear is that you're pretty crap in the sack. Anyone who finds it a chore to try to give a sexual partner pleasure and just goes through the motions is.
The best you - and the women you come into contact with - can hope for is that you'll find a woman who's as into anal as you are. There are women like that out there. If non-anal sex is really such a terrible chore for you, maybe you should just be upfront about your preferences when it seems like you're heading towards having sex with a girl. Sure, that will be enough for some of them to shriek in disgust and stomp off, but at least you won't have wasted any time on them and they won't have the experience of dealing with another guy who doesn't really care if they enjoy sex.
That was weird normal and not normal was switched, it's normal. Anal is great. Look into transwomen they might be your cup of tea.
When I lived in West London (near Heathrow,) I met a married lady on holiday with her friends (female) in Spain. We were fooling about and she asked if I'd fuck her bottom as her husband wouldn't. So for the rest of the week I fucked her pussy twice and her bottom about twenty times!
I got a phone call a couple of weeks from the husband, they'd been talking about it and he suggested a threesome. I went round and she wanted her husband in her pussy and me up her bum so at least once a month she had double penetration, we never swapped positions but we felt our cocks rubbing against each other's.
No it ain't. Your dick wasn't designed to go up there. However, guys like anal more sometimes because if her vagina is somewhat lose, the stimulation can be much better. So far I am not too fond of anal. Her butthole is always too tight for aggressive fucking raw, you need lube which is a pain and half the time she wants to stop before you nut because her hole hurts.
I prefer to unwind in the Pink Eye of Power rather than the Black Hole of Mumbai but to each their own!
Not gay, dude. Arseholes can actually be quite nice. I like girls too, and I'm with you on this one. I still prefer to fuck the pussy, but sometimes their pussies are quite unattractive tbh. They can smell, and the lips can look not very nice, but an arseholes an arsehole; if it's clean and the same colours as her skin then it's hot.
As a woman I find anal sex such a big turn on, do I love it over vaginal pleasure, well probably not but it runs it a close second. Get well lubricated and the pleasures both a man and a woman can enjoy are immense and yes I do get a climax from it when done correctly, for a woman the feeling of a big hard cock deep inside the ass is something truly sensational.