Is it normal i like a man 16 years older than me?

I like this man, 16 years older than me. I am 21, and I don't want a family now. But I think he wants. He is lovely with me and lately I can not stop to think about him. Ah, we never seen, we live far away, and he wants to see me. Should I give him a chance?

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Comments ( 17 )
  • nightmare28

    While the age itself doesn't matter as long as you both adults. However a man at his age might be looking to settle down while you still want to experience life.

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  • Three of the six comments here are hillarious.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    My ex left me for a 36 year old man when she was 18. Obviously I was all butt hurt over the whole thing, but now I have to admit, they just had a beautiful baby, and they have quite a lovely little family!

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  • Theycallme

    Im 19, theres a woman in my life whos 39, We have all the same interests, same favorite everything, she tells me I dont care how old you are our souls are the same age.

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  • DreamsVI

    Age is really nothing but a number, as long as you're legal :P

    If you guys are compatible, give him a chance. But if you two both want something serious, you might have to make that clear from the start

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  • Sample-Stick

    Mee too, i love women who are older than me. I want to date a woman who is older than me

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  • peterrabbyt2

    Suck his cock. I am an older guy and I love younger women sucking me off!!!

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    • Miss_Understood

      we could be friends then if u like younger women lol

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  • littlebarbie

    Thank u guys... sometimes I get scared cuz is new for me... and is new for him too... But there is a problem... I have a bf. And he is like crazy, said that he will kill himself if I leave him. If I decide to live with this man, older than me, idk what my bf would do... but the fact is that I can not stop to think about that man!

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  • Lynxikat

    I'm not gonna give the "age is just a number" saying because everyone else has already done it.

    I'm more concerned with the fact that he might want a family and you're not ready for one- that can be a huge deal in a relationship. If he's dead set on wanting a family at this time, and you're not ready for one right now, I think that might be the bigger problem in your relationship, not your age.

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  • Blather!

    Legal is 16 and over

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  • alana17

    YES!!!! Go see him!!!!! I'm eighteen and I have a thing for older guys. Though younger is also fine to I guess, only by a year though, that's my cut off ;).

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    • farkelu

      Alana I find it very attractive that you admit being attracted to older men

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  • Blue_Velvet

    Well its legal so i see nothing wrong in that.

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  • Avant-Garde

    "Age is this just a state of the mind."
    I once had a crush on someone and there was a 23 year age difference. Anyway that was something she said and I think it ranges true. As long as you are both legal adults, it doesn't matter. I think you should meet him.

    Good Luck!

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  • ygrowup

    These relationships often have bumps on the beginning, but often turn out fantastic

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  • JuliusE

    When you mature past your "omg I've been hurt in a past relationship! I don't want to commit!" stage, then you'll be a big girl who's ready for a big man. Until then, why don't you continuously lower your sexual market value by fucking lots of guys and maybe getting some tattoos and piercings?

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