Is it normal i let my husband have a fuck buddy?

My husband has cheated on me many times, so I agreed to let him have a "fuck buddy" if he promises not to cheat on me so much.

I don't care if he has sex with another woman, but I am concerned if he keeps cheating, I will get a disease, and rather him just have a steady "fuck buddy".

Yes, You are a wonderful woman 26
Yes, All men deserve a "Fuck Buddy" 35
If you don't care, then it's fine 63
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Comments ( 21 )
  • FORUMiadableFucker0

    People who think this is even remotely okay are pathetic.

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  • Terry...

    This is a recipe for disaster. Sex frequently leads to feelings of attachment. You may come home one day to find your husband has up and left to be with his f buddy.

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  • kla631

    You should all just swing. Your husband her, her husband and you. Just have one polyamorous relationship.

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  • Kookulainamus

    why not try swinging?

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  • youngkitten

    This whole thing is a red flag. Him having someone else is still cheating. If he cannot be faithful to you then leave him. If you stay with him while he does this to you obviously you guys aren't together for a happy marriage

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  • mysistersshadow

    Some ppl do that. Its not normal but not unheard of. You should see how he reacts if you mention getting one as well.

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  • wav46

    I would let my wife have one if she wanted to as long as she told me all about it

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  • Chudachudi

    It is very hard to believe but a real fact. Maximum guys want to taete a different girl. U will not understand the pleasure of making a sexy girl naked and smell her all holes. Maximum married guys jerk off fantasising different women. All woman have different taste. It is a fact that guys love taste new pussy. I am married and today I had sex with my maid. I regularly fuck different girls.

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  • sararyan7242

    I think that's a reasonable solution. I would just make sure his new "fuck buddy" is tested for STDs first, and then you should be safe.

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    • Yes, she has been tested, and I have met her. She is actually very nice and very married. Kind of a win-win...

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      • sararyan7242

        I know most guys can't be faithful, and the ones that claim so, are liars... It's just in their DNA. Let them have their flings...

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        • walkingdildo

          DNA has no role in fidelity, studies are inconclusive. Idiot.

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      • Ellenna

        And how do you know her husband has also been tested and isn't having sex with another or others?

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  • Doblo

    What happened what did you do ?

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  • Doblo

    I think you should get dressed to the nines and have a great time and get this sleep with another man then tell you hubby

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  • MrBucket73

    That's a good egg!

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  • Sexy_Unicorn

    hes ur husband and if u let him fuck other women hed go all out and do it to litterally everyone so u need to set him strait or whatever

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  • Jennyplow

    i think your smart every man likes a change better an agreed change than to break up every one can be happy too ,you must clarify with him that it is ok for you to have some stray cock too if he dont agree with this even if you dont want it then its not fair you are being more than fair
    and i agree with others too maybe a swinging night once in a while too spice it up is all good ,sex is no big deal if its clean and in open if its behind your back its cheating
    I bet he likes to fuck you more after he has been with his lover yes im sure

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Don't think it would work. If he is having trouble having sex with only you, what makes you think he will be able to have sex with just his fuck buddy and you? It sounds to me like he has a problem staying faithful.

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  • Handyman

    Leave him, soon.

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  • dytrog

    I would get fuck buddies of my own and tell her how great they were. But I don't believe in sharing.

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