Is it normal i let my boyfriend kiss a guy but now regret it?

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I was at a party the other day with my boyfriend. We are both bisexual. He had never kissed a guy before. I was drunk and stoned. He asked me if he could kiss one of his close male friends. I said he could, even though I knew I was only saying it because I was drunk and I don't want to tell him what to do all the time. And I was scared that he would kiss the guy anyway, but secretly, if I didn't say he could.
Now I feel awful, like he doesn't love me anymore. I feel like I love him too much to ever kiss someone who isn't him. I told him this and he said he was ok with doing it because he didn't feel like he loved me very much at the time. He says he does love me loads again now and he just wanted to get the bisexuality out of his system. But I saw him kissing the guy, it was so passionate. I'm not sure I believe him.
I shouldn't feel jealous or weird because I said it was okay, but I do. Is it normal for me to feel like this?

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  • runningwithscissors
    9 years ago

    Nothing about any of this is normal.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    You should not allow your boyfriend to so things because you fear he'd do them anyway ... That is not a sign of a healthy relationship. You sound strictly monogamous and that is okay!

    His responses to this makes me believe that he is not the guy for you.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    "Get the bisexuality out of his system" lol what a joke. If he is bisexual, he is bisexual. Meaning a sexual attraction to both sexes. He isn't just gonna get it outta his system. I'm bisexual and have similar problems with my gf. Like this one time she berated me because she wanted to meet her friends at the gay bar, and then we get there and over the course of the night she turned into a monster because people kept hitting on me. Then she says she thinks it'd be hot to see me kiss another guy, then Realizes she's jealous as HELL after I do it. It's difficult because being in love doesn't change your sexuality.

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    It is normal that you regret it,but shouldn't he want to kiss you and not some guy? I think you should do yourself a favor and maybe end it or take a break, because it's only going to persist, since you gave him the ok that night. I can understand agreeing to something you are unsure of while drunk, but not this. 0__o

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    These boots are made for walking and that's just what they'll do...

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