Is it normal i kinda enjoy knowing my best friend's just broken up with his gf?

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Ok, this guy is one of my best friend, we used to share many secrets until he dated this girl. I know I should have been happy for him but I wasn't. I kinda envied him. He was always the luckiest one among us. And he never told us anything about this girlfriend.

Today, a friend of mine told me that she heard they had broken up. I couldn't help but enjoy knowing that a little bit. I know that was mean of me. A part of me had been waiting for that to happen.

How bad I am !!!

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    That's envy and it's normal. I think we've all secretly been in that place before, or something similar. It doesn't mean that you're a bad person.

    It would be bad to act on those kinds of feelings though. Try to brush them aside.

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  • Vivien5
    10 years ago

    You should put yourself in her place though. How would you feel if you had a girlfriend and she would tell all her secrets to her friends but not you. The same thing happened to him too. And sometimes the bond between a girl and a boy is stronger than friendship.:)

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  • EccentricWeird
    10 years ago

    You people are really spiteful.

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  • familyguy63
    10 years ago

    you must want her!!!

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    As they say, misery loves company.

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy
    10 years ago

    the best friend that wishes you break up and the b**ch that tries to cheat with you behind your girlfriends back...nothing new here

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  • Aliceee93
    10 years ago

    I think it's normal, it's not a good thing to feel because he could be hurting now. But when his gf came along she took away a part of your friendship, and that's what you didn't like.

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