Is it normal i haven't posted single shit on fb coz

I am too embarrassed. I always think that my friends will make fun of it in comments. Nobody will like it. Well I don't use fb more often & I haven't accepted any requests but still I always feel that it will barely get 2 or 3 likes & then my friends will say "ohh! Only 2 likes mine's got 300(yeah like I care)" I haven't posted anything in 3years.
& I think I am still not there where i should be & my friends are worst they are gonna make fun of that too.
Its very hard to accept that all of that hard work was for nothing but I am getting off the topic.
Main question is is it normal that I don't post anything coz i think,it will be worse & no one will like it?

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93% Normal
Based on 15 votes (14 yes)
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  • e51pegasi

    Facebook is dull. Pictures of people's kids, silly motivational quote/picture things, pissed up selfies, homemade burgers. And possibly the worst of all, people's political crusades.

    I'd imagine nearly all the crap that people post on Facebook is boring, fabricated or embellished & to be honest I wouldn't let it worry you if it doesn't get liked. Some people use Facebook & other social media to bolster their ego & make their life sound amazing as they make the common mistake in thinking that life is a popularity contest. It isn't.

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  • FB is for kids and moms. Delete your account and let everyone know. You’ll be the talk of FB.

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    • noid

      I've thought of doing that myself. I don't like Facebook. But when I get bored I go on there anyway because sometimes I find things that are entertaining. But I rarely post anything myself.

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      • That’s the bitch if it. You have to have an account to get to stuff you like. It’s like being held hostage.

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  • KiwiWisdom

    FB is like any other social media, mostly just show and tell. Isn't the real problem here your friends were trying to constantly one up you? I mean unless they're just stating a fact to make conversation, I don't want to assume anything, that's actually a pretty sad example of their esteem. I just think maybe you've gotten a bit discouraged by the experiences and should look for an outlet of self expression you are proud of, regardless of the number of reactions from other people. I barely get a few likes sharing the best news in my life, but all i care about is keeping the rest of my very distant family up to date. Maybe you shouldn't let them heckle you about it?

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  • Nickvey

    you are not using FB for its intended purpose . on FB its not the successful that wins the rewards ,its the most interesting person. get it now? its an entertainment channel starring the people you know. i drop all the non posters , fuck them. i wanna see some fat chick changing a tire , some retard buddy using his barbecue grill to smoke a turkey, some crazy bitch that won't sign a traffic ticket getting locked up , all that is on facebook getting thumbs up for being alive. thats why when im getting stung by a scorpion barefoot of course that picture is going on facebook,wrecked cars ,sunburns , you fucking name it , im the star of my show.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Social media is a scourge. I have only recently attempted to get a second Facebook account to promote my blogging endeavor, or rather my blogging attempt.

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    • Why second account,what happened to the first one??

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      • RoseIsabella

        Well, and this is kinda embarrassing, but basically I opened my first Facebook page on a whim, and completely didn't expect anyone to friend me. However, as it turns out several of my old friends from back in high school, and college have made friend requests, but haven't accepted their requests, because I feel like a failure in life, and I'm embarrassed of myself. I just thought I'd be doing so much better back in the day when I was a young, cocky asshole of a chick. In reference to my long dead radio broadcasting career people used to say I was that girl on the radio who didn't give a damn. I would pretty much just say whatever the Hell I wanted. I guess it was my thing. I didn't try to make it my thing, it just was.

        Now I feel so self-conscious that its not even funny. I used to be very judgemental in a superficial sort of way, and I can say with relative confidence that Karma is real.

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        • All I can say is that nobody reaches there,where they want to be. I am afraid I won't but am not gonna loose my hope.
          & about that fb account, if you wanna promote your blog,you can promote here. Actually I am on the blogging site too(though o have only posted one post😁) & I promise I won't troll😂

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          • RoseIsabella

            Right on!

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            • Yeah! You should post your blogs name here on this site. Or may be not a good idea coz of "troll army". But you should mention its name here,sure Styrofoam seems interested & me too

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    • I’d be interested in reading that. Can you let me know when you launch?

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      • RoseIsabella

        Yeah, I think I can. 😊

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        • Cool.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Do you blog yourself?

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            • No but I think I could. Maybe I’ll contribute on yours if you pay well ;-)

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  • lordofopinions

    You're not missing a lot. Most posts are a waste of time.

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  • barstool

    What hard work?

    But yes, normal. I've never posted anything. Partly for similar reasons as you, partly because there's nothing I want to share with literally everybody on my list and partly because the whole thing is ridiculous.

    If I want to share something with someone, I show them. But I'm not going to show a whole bunch of other people (that I barely know or haven't spoken to in years).

    From cruising fb, I know stuff about people's lives that I just Should Not know. It's not my business, but they looove to share that shit anyway..! It may be acceptable, but it's not okay for me personally.

    Anyway...tangent over, I understand your concern for embarrassment. Try not to care about the reaction if you do ever post anything.

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