Is it normal i have to beg him for sex?

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I have been with my fiance for over a year now but i literally have to beg him for sex. One time we were sitting on the couch and i touched his private parts, he yelled "Sex,sex,sex, that's all you can think about!". Another time we were lying in bed and i wanted it as well so i touched him and he yelled at me and pushed me away for no reason and went to sleep. Those are a few examples to what i experience. I would like to add that he takes medications for heart disease and pain killers because he often has back pains, he also has problems with kidney stone. He uses viagra to get errection but he sometimes gets it without using anything. I sometimes wonder if it's anything wrong with me or is this normal behaviour considering all this? Yes, we do have sex but not as often as i'm used to in previous relationships. The longest we've gone without having sex was a week.

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    7 years ago

    This is horrifying!!!! What a nightmare. How are you going to end this madness? I suppose the ONLY good news is you are not married yet so you can still kick him out, change the locks, keep your house and your assets. I wish I hadn't read this post. I think the side effects from his medication relate to him being an insensitive asshole! What a life. You poor woman.

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    • Tempest-au
      7 years ago

      Sarcasm Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously? I swear I'll never get used to it (sarcasm), it's not something we have on my planet...

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      • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
        7 years ago

        Sarcasm???? In what way does that even begin to read as sarcastic. I was just putting on my overalls and looking for an axe in case she needs help getting out of there! Should I reword it? IT IS FUCKING HORRIFYING!!!!!!!!

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        • Tempest-au
          7 years ago

          I've a spare axe and circular saw over here if you need it... In my bedroom... Behind the door...

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          • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
            7 years ago

            A spare axe could be handy!
            Face down on the ground Sir with your legs spread and hands behind your head. Twitch one eyelid and it'll be tempest go night night. Sulphuric acid in the bathroom?

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            • Tempest-au
              7 years ago

              I refuse to answer regarding the contents of my bathroom cabinets. Anyway, the Aqua Regia is purely leftover from my jewelry making days, and the sulphuric acid is just for topping up the car battery.

              So what, I buy in bulk, there's no crime in that is there!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    7 years ago

    His heath problems and the medication are the reasons he can't perform. You can either:
    1)understand this and live with it by using sex toys or maybe find some sort of compromise or
    2) just break up.
    None of this is meant to be rude or bash you two in any way btw.

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    Responding as a person who has a chronic back problem, perfectly normal - particularly if your normal sex activities involve "him on top". Many times towards the end of my last marriage, I "refused" my wife's sexual advances, simply because I didn't want to be in pain/more pain.

    In my case my wife was a fat lazy cow who never wanted to be on top because that would involve her actually doing something, but perhaps your situation might be different.

    Also, I've heard that some blood pressure medications can actually lower libido. It might be worth you and your fiancé discussing "side effects" like this with his doctor, in case there are alternative medications with different side effects.

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    • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
      7 years ago

      "My wife was a fat lazy cow" it's good you're not bitter or anything lol

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      • Tempest-au
        7 years ago

        No, not really bitter. Just honest. She was obese, probably morbidly obese. She also never got on top because it was "too hard" and "made her hips sore" - just like she never did much around the house because she was tired, or sore, or whatever.

        You are right though, I shouldn't have called her a cow. Cows are useful bovine creatures which are even attractive in their own way.

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        • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
          7 years ago

          Bloody hell! It sounds like a lucky break she didn't get on top unless you have a block n tackle over the bed.

          As if the OP being forced to beg for sex wasn't enough - now I have this image of an obese complaining woman?

          This site is like a online Adams Family where the people are uniquely and wonderfully strange (she says resting her beautiful heels on the naked male sissy slut performing as human furniture in her lounge room).

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          • Tempest-au
            7 years ago

            Can I be Uncle Fester, pleeeeeese!

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Some people just have low sex drives. Also health problems and medications can kill a person's sex drive. I know from my own experience.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    He sounds awful.

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    • MR.mr
      7 years ago

      some people just have lower sex drives. If you absolutely were not in the mood and your boyfriend kept pestering you wouldn't you eventually get mad?

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        As far as my man is concerned as long as he has a condom I'm in the mood.

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  • ASS2MOUTH
    7 years ago

    Go find yourself a male whore , there are millions of them out there.
    You wont have to beg them to fuck your bald cunt , ass and mouth.

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    • Duderanch
      7 years ago

      Your mother must be so proud of you Son.

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      • Carlton03
        7 years ago

        Hahahah

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  • bigfatdick4
    7 years ago

    Do you have hands and are they both working?

    If the answer is yes to both of the above, fuck him! get a nice dildo and do it yourself, that way you can as much as you want when you want and how you want it!

    Alternatively give me a call

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  • NoNotJesus
    7 years ago

    From the context of this post, it sounds like you have not spoken to him about it. In this situation, it pays dividends to communicate. If you haven't spoken to him about maybe you should try? Or...cover your body in honey and stick yourself on top of him. Making it painful to push you off.

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