Is it normal i have so many flaws
Nobody's perfect but exactly how many flaws are normal? It's not like I don't have good traits but I can be self-centered,stuck-up, shy, boring, judgmental, ugly, passive aggressive, impatient, lazy ... if it's abnormal I don't know how to change, and unfortunately all this "don't change yourself for anyone" and "you're perfect" crap reinforces my unwillingness to do so.