Is it normal i have so many flaws

Nobody's perfect but exactly how many flaws are normal? It's not like I don't have good traits but I can be self-centered,stuck-up, shy, boring, judgmental, ugly, passive aggressive, impatient, lazy ... if it's abnormal I don't know how to change, and unfortunately all this "don't change yourself for anyone" and "you're perfect" crap reinforces my unwillingness to do so.

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Based on 23 votes (22 yes)
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Comments ( 26 )
  • JD777

    I have 12.8 flaws and my goal is to get that down to 8.3. One flaw I'm working on is to avoid using overly precise figures. Damn, did it again!

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    • Asstastics

      Never fear. Part of my job being your Ass is to accentuate your superiority. You have compulsive problems with one digit beyond significance. Well just be glad you are not fucked up like me. I am obsessed with modeling minutia with integral calculus in my head. Whether it's gradients, or rates, it's all I ever think about until I summarize my sick mathematical abstractions in multi dimensional matrices.

      For this reason, I salute your well grounded mind as being superior to my own.

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  • GigglesGirl

    *Giggles*. I giggle too much. *Giggle*

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    • You are fuckin' weird.

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      • GigglesGirl

        *giggles*

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  • AliBabba83

    I just want to give you a hug. Love yourself!

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  • 100% normal? I'm very surprised! I shouldn't be so hard on myself.

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  • lelouch82

    There's no such thing as perfect when it comes to people.

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  • Idahohow

    Everyone has flaws. Even those "perfect people" remember no body is perfect. I mean everyone can be selfish since we love to treat our selves. Some aren't but do they still have flaws? Yes. That's not the only flaw someone can have, but just as an example. I also don't think people should hate you for it. I probably am on your side, I have too many :P It is PERFECTLY NORMAL~~!

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Aw, this is hard for me to read as someone who's perfect.

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    • Aw.

      Naivety; arrogance. There's two.

      Hope I helped!

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      • KeddersPrincess

        No! I am god!

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        • 'God' requires capitalization.

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          • KeddersPrincess

            I meant "a" god, but I'll accept a promotion. ;)

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  • you might like to add contrary to yr list ..:-D

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  • (s)aint

    We all have flaws, but others probably wont notice yours as much as you do.

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    • Others were what brought them to my attention.

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      • (s)aint

        Well, I´ve been called most names in the book by people.
        Why take their words as truth?

        Although what ARE your issues?

        I have some issues that I too need to work with.

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        • True, but you sense a pattern and there's only so many times you can tell yourself it's just that one person's opinion. But thanks :)

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          • (s)aint

            An example; I´ve been called ugly more times than I can count to, mostly by other women or men I have rejected.
            -Or simply people that dislikes alternative women.

            Why should I care?

            The issues I do however care about are the ones strangers can not see anyway.

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  • snarkygirl

    Everyone has flaws to be sure.

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    • I don't have any.

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      • snarkygirl

        Your perfection makes others feel inferior, maybe?

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        • Hey good one! That works.

          And here I thought crippling depression was it.

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