Is it normal i have low standards?

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When it comes to dating I typically have low standards as far as looks are concerned. As long as I can look at her and not be disgusted, it's fine. It's just not something that I've ever obsessed over. I was just wondering if this is normal? One of my friends told me that I need to raise my standards, after the last girl I dated for about a year, she wasn't particularly beautiful but after I fell in love with her, she looked like the most beautiful thing God ever put on 2 legs to me(things didn't work out between us unfortunately.).

Anyways IIN?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I can't think of a better, healthier or mature attitude towards people in general or dating in particular.
    After all, should someone hook up and marry a gal for her looks only, chances are a few years down the road he'll be seeing someone completely different on the bed beside him in the mornings.
    I applaud your attitude.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    You need to rephrase the concept of "low standards" to a more postive one, that you don't judge people on their appearance: in other words, you have a mature attitude.

    The friend you mention is superficial and immature

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  • AnUneatenCarrot
    8 years ago

    Personality > Looks. You're doing it right man. Good for you!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    What you're describing is not low standards. It's realistic standards. It's something that a lot of people seem to lack.
    :)

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    You're a wonderful person, don't ever change.

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  • PlebolaVirus
    8 years ago

    I will not even consider a relationship with a woman if they are not of equal or higher intelligence than me, incredibly attractive, between 5'5" and 5'7" tall, highly wealthy, non-religious, have no drug habits, no illnesses, no emotional instability and hold a prestigious university degree from a good school.

    Some people have high standards and some don't. Even if I wasn't asexual, finding a satisfactory woman would be a near-impossible task for me. Just be glad you're easily satisfied.

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    • green_boogers
      8 years ago

      Women at that level pay for gigilos. You would need to increase your sexual market value (which is close to zero) to even be considered. Btw, upping your value is negatively correlated with everything you like, especially distancing yourself from Mom. But I think you already knew that.

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      • PlebolaVirus
        8 years ago

        I live on the other side of the country to the rest of my family. I moved out at 16 years of age. I don't know what made you think I'm not distant already. Also, I was speaking hypothetically. I have no interest at all in pursuing a relationship.

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    Meh..tell your friend to go fuck himself in his own tight little asshole. You seem to understand what you like and want out of other humans. You like what you like. You know what to look for in another person and it suits you just fine. What else matters? You care what your stupid peers think? Tell them to go fuck their fucking selves if they have a problem with it. At least you have your integrity.

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