Is it normal i have higher expectations of women than men?
If someone says their father smokes, or chews tobacco that might be forgivable, but if their mother is a smoker or does risky stuff I might wonder what im getting involved with here. If the dad goes out gets drink and slobbering all over his wife and falling over it wouldn't be as bad as if the wife did that and you are lying if you disagree. More things id expect from a man but not from a woman: spitting, getting into fights, doing drugs, riding motorbike, getting loads of tattoos, forgetting about the kids, chasing some tail, farting, burping, acting like a slob.