Is it normal i hate people who get mad for you? even if you don't ask?

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I really hate this. You will have a problem with someone and you let it go but than the person will get MAD for you. Even though they are not being professional about it and assume you are as mad as they are. So project their anger onto you and don't understand when you tell them "No I am not feeling that way".

Even if you really already let it go and if you make the complaint its very calmly. If you tell the person to calm down they get upset and say you are a selfish liar and its exactly as they said.

How do you deal with these type of people and how do you ask them to please stop without them getting upset? Sometimes people need to calm down and its difficult when the person speaking for you becomes so intense about everything.

Like the statement could be "Well I was given hours I had said I could not work and it was very difficult for me" turns into "They were in tears and pulling their hair out because they couldn't get to work".

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  • GryphonChick
    9 years ago

    I can't say I've experienced this firsthand, but I imagine it must be irritating. :/ I wish I had an answer for you. I guess you could always tell the person afterwards that it wasn't that bad, once the angry person has left. I don't know.

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