Is it normal i get strangely turned on by the thought of my boyfriend cheating?

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I really do not know what it is, but when I think of my boyfriend feeling up another girl, or making out and going at it with someone else it infuriates me and turns me on at the same damn time! I'm thinking maybe this is a form a masochism, but emotional instead of physical (I like that too.) I guess I get turned on by the emotional pain that would come from me knowing he cheated on me. Do you think this is a form of masochism? Is it normal that this turns me on? Any similar stories or advice you'd like to share?

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  • BluntsRolled
    11 years ago

    Make me mad, get me off, at the same damn time.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Fuck my girl, and this bitch
      At the same damn time.

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      • BluntsRolled
        11 years ago

        At the same damn time!

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Huh... that's odd. I saw the title, was going to reccomend you guys try swinging, then read what you wrote about it and that's.. different.

    My boyfriend and I are open, for me it's a huge turn on to see him having fun with someone else.

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  • michelle1799
    3 years ago

    i feel cheated After 35 years of marriage my husband cheated on me, thanks to priest kala for helping me, he told me that he was no longer interested in marriage, I could not say what leads to this cause, we have never had a real fight that could lead to such a decision. I was much worse than I could not continue. One afternoon I was at home talking online with a close friend, reading an article, and seeing a comment on a married woman. It really struck me because I never thought it was possible, I thought and tried. So I did whatever he asked me and after the last seven days my husband came and asked me to forgive him that he wanted us to meet and that he now has more than five years. now we are a happy family. I am really grateful for this help for what it is for me, I mean her kindness. {Whatsapp {{ 17692085860}}}}}}}} :: :

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  • mythicpoultry
    11 years ago

    Your just submissive the idea of him using you like that turns you on and then the idea that you get turned on by that turns you on :)

    It's way more common in men but it's nothing that unusual.

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  • Norml
    11 years ago

    It may take you a while to figure it out. It could be you just want him to experience pleasure. Try making a friend you think he'd like to do and get the three of you together. Get the ball rolling and see how things go. See how you feel when he's pleasuring her.

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