Is it normal i get butterflies in my stomach when really young girls look at me

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I was at Chipotle and coming out of the bathroom when I saw a mother and her young daughter eating, the girl was like 5 years old, and she kept looking at me as I was walking. Of course I knew she wasn't staring at me for any reason, and she was too young to know that staring is rude, so I knew it was just her innocent curiosity and didn't read into it. But her features were striking and I could tell that in a couple years she would turn into a beautiful young girl. I am a loner and virgin and not good looking, so really no attractive females ever look at me. I knew that when she got old enough, she would never ever look at me like that again because most good looking girls starting from their teenage years get an "attitude" and don't bother with guys who they think don't deserve them. I know it was wrong but seeing her watching me gave butterflies in my stomach.

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  • mariahgrl1
    8 years ago

    There is someone for everyone. You just need to get out there, perhaps a hobby group or something, and meet different people. That type of response to a child's stare, is not appropriate at all. Why would you even mention about her features & how'd she look in a few years?? To me, that is perverted. I agree with the response above....you better be careful of this feeling. It could get you into big trouble one day!!!

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  • Danie
    8 years ago

    Your reaction suggests you should never be in a room alone with children.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    I think something might be off in your head. There should be no connection with a little girl and physical attraction whatsoever.

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    It seems a little strange to me , when little girls look at me or take a liking to me I just think its adorable or funny . I don't ever get butterflies like how I might if a beautiful woman was into me , I think you should be careful of this feeling but I cant say I have any real advice to change it I just know it seems odd and I would suggest ignoring it .

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I am not accusing you of anything, but your reaction seems to suggest romantic interest. While apparently quite common, it is obviously far from ideal.

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